By: Christian Schweitzer

Cryptocurrency (“Crypto”) is a decentralized digital currency stabilized by the blockchain, a digital ledger accessible and verifiable by millions of computers worldwide, that records every crypto transaction.[1] Crypto is no longer a fringe venture reserved for only the savviest players in the digital marketplace.[2] Recent estimates suggest that over twenty-seven million Americans own cryptocurrency in one form or another, and broad expert consensus acknowledges that crypto is here to stay, with enormous potential for market growth in the near term.[3] Crypto offers users a myriad of benefits, including fast, private transactions twenty-four hours a day and the chance to diversify their investment portfolio in a way that hedges against inflation, with the possibility of outsized future returns.[4] However, as with any emerging, largely unregulated technology, there is potential for abuse.

One such abuse that has garnered recent attention is the practice of using digital assets like cryptocurrency to conceal or dissipate wealth in anticipation of divorce.[5] Of course, using digital tools to hide assets is neither new nor exclusively associated with certain pitfalls of cryptocurrency.[6] For example, the popularity of using electronic transfers to offshore accounts to conceal assets from spouses and the IRS has left some commentators arguing for reforms to the discovery process to give courts the tools to increase transparency in the asset disclosure process of a divorce proceeding.[7] Nonetheless, because crypto can be purchased anonymously and through foreign organizations, it can prove especially difficult for spouses and their attorneys to recover amid contentious divorce proceedings.[8]

While courts and the IRS continue to disagree about whether crypto is best classified as money—as held by multiple United States District Courts—or property—as suggested by the IRS—all courts have stated clearly that cryptocurrency is a “marital financial asset subject to distribution in divorce.”[9] Despite the unique nature of cryptocurrency, courts encountering instances of a spouse attempting to use it to conceal wealth have not been flummoxed, and have simply applied existing doctrines to these new facts. In perhaps the most newsworthy case on the matter, In re Marriage of DeSouza[10] held that because of the confidential relationship between spouses, spouses have a wide-ranging, affirmative duty to disclose all information relevant to community assets and that this duty extends to the period of separation immediately following marriage.[11] Thus, the husband’s failure to disclose his bitcoin purchases, which had since appreciated in value, afforded his wife a claim for breach of fiduciary duty, for which she was awarded a one-half share of the bitcoin purchased with marital assets as well as court costs and attorney’s fees.[12] Therefore, for litigants who suspect that their former spouse has hidden wealth using crypto, their biggest hurdle will not be a court’s willingness to grant relief, but the threshold issue of realizing that the deception has occurred and finding evidence to prove it.[13]

Because the chief difficulty in proving crypto-related fraud in a divorce action is evidentiary, effective factfinding during and before discovery is of the utmost importance.[14] For clients in their individual capacity, experts recommend reviewing bank and credit card statements, loan applications, tax returns, and browsing history or applications installed on shared electronic devices if a client suspects that their spouse is concealing funds invested in crypto.[15] Clients should be careful to only review devices or documents which they share with a spouse, and not the other spouse’s private devices, to avoid violating privacy laws.[16] Upon reaching the discovery phase, it is incumbent on an attorney to recognize that significant knowledge gaps still exist among the public with regard to cryptocurrency, requiring an attorney to do some handholding while questioning their client about the possibility of their spouse owning digital assets.[17] Questions may need to be highly generalized, inquiring as to whether a client’s spouse is good with technology or owns many electronic devices.[18] If either the client’s answers or discrepancies between available financial information and the lifestyle of the client’s spouse trigger suspicion of hidden crypto assets, the best practice is to send a preservation letter to opposing counsel to warn the spouse against destroying evidence, strengthening a later claim for spoliation if the spouse attempts to discreetly liquidate or destroy records of the crypto assets.[19]

Next, send discovery requests for items such as the hard drive of the spouse’s computer, credit card statements, and loan applications.[20] The rise of a few preeminent trading platforms like Coinbase, which now has over 89 million users worldwide, means it is likely that if a spouse has invested in cryptocurrency, an industry-leading name like Coinbase is likely to appear on those documents or devices.[21] If a spouse is more savvy and using less mainstream mediums, the only way to find records of the transfer may be through forensic accounting, which can be prohibitively expensive unless the suspected value of the crypto is large.[22]

Above all, family law attorneys must understand that the way they approach crypto assets in a divorce is likely to shift soon, especially as the Biden administration signals a willingness to take a serious look at applying substantive cryptocurrency regulations.[23] Reforms such a reclassifying crypto from property to a security could help create more stringent disclosure requirements and provide a more appropriate means of valuing highly volatile crypto assets.[24] For now, family law attorneys can best serve their clients by maintaining a general awareness of new developments in digital assets and practice finding those assets by thoughtfully speaking to their clients and utilizing the tools of discovery in consultation with trusted forensic accounting experts.[25]


[1] Kate Ashford & John Schmidt, What is Cryptocurrency?, Forbes (Jan. 25, 2022, 4:15 PM), https://www.forbes.com/advisor/investing/what-is-cryptocurrency/.

[2] Keegan Francis, Crypto Mass Adoption: A Matter of When, Not If, NASDAQQ (Jan. 24, 2022, 10:20 AM), https://www.nasdaq.com/articles/crypto-mass-adoption%3A-a-matter-of-when-not-if.

[3] Id.

[4] Brian Nibley, 12 Benefits of Cryptocurrency in 2022, SoFi (Dec. 20, 2021), https://www.sofi.com/learn/content/benefits-of-crypto/.

[5] Kate Dore, Spouses in Divorce Proceedings are Using Cryptocurrencies to Hide Money. Here’s How Experts Find it, CNBC (Jun. 1, 2021, 7:52 PM), https://www.cnbc.com/2021/06/01/divorcing-spouses-are-using-cryptocurrency-to-hide-money-how-experts-find-it.html.

[6] Khrista McCarden, Till Offshore Do Us Part: Uncovering Assets Hidden from Spouses and

Tax Authorities, 62 St. Louis U. L.J. 19, 19–20 (2017).

[7] Id. at 20–21.

[8] Dore, supra note 5.

[9] Sandra M. Radna, Column: Family Law Corner: Discovery in the Age of Bitcoin, 63 Orange Cnty. Law. 44, 44 (2021); United States v. Ulbricht, No. 14-cr-68 (KBF), 2014 U.S. Dist. LEXIS 93093, at *66–72 (S.D.N.Y. July 9, 2014); SEC v. Shavers, No. 4:13-CV-416, 2013 U.S. Dist. LEXIS 110018, at *4–5 (E.D. Tex. Aug. 6, 2013).

[10] 266 Cal. Rptr. 3d 890 (2020).

[11] Id. at 894–95 (2020).

[12] Id. at 895.

[13] Helen Cort, The Rise of Cryptocurrency in Divorce, BDD Pitmans (Sept. 28, 2021), https://www.bdbpitmans.com/insights/the-rise-of-cryptocurrency-in-divorce/.

[14] Radna, supra note 9.

[15] Sandra M. Radna, What to do If Your Spouse is Hiding Cryptocurrency During Divorce, Divorce Mag (June 23, 2021), https://www.divorcemag.com/articles/what-to-do-if-your-spouse-is-hiding-cryptocurrency-during-divorce.

[16] Richard West & Jonathan Fields, A Divorce Practitioner’s Bitcoin Primer, 33 J. Am.

Acad. Matrimonial Law. 177, 190 (2020).

[17] Id. at 188.

[18] Id.

[19] Id.

[20] Radna, supra note 9.

[21] Coinbase Powers the Cryptoeconomcy, Coinbase, https://www.coinbase.com/about (last visited Mar. 14, 2022).

[22] Shaelyn Comiskey et al., Legal Considerations of Cryptocurrency in Divorce, 6 J. Inter. Acad. Bus. Disciplines 255, 260 (2019).

[23] Alex Gailey, Biden’s New Executive Order on Crypto Is a Big Step in the Right Direction, Experts Say. Here’s What Investors Should Know, Time (Mar. 11, 2022), https://time.com/nextadvisor/investing/cryptocurrency/biden-executive-order-crypto-expert-reaction/.

[24] Caline Hou, Note, A Bit-ter Divorce: Using Bitcoin to Hide Marital Assets, 16 N.C. J.L. & Tech. On. 74, 104–05 (2015).

[25] Radna, supra note 9.

10 Wake Forest L. Rev. Online 1

Caroline Hamilton*

I.  Introduction

After a tumultuous marriage and a difficult pregnancy, Michelle Monasky wanted out of her relationship and out of Italy.  Eight weeks after the birth of her daughter, Monasky abducted her baby and returned to her hometown of Painesville, Ohio.  Domenico Taglieri, Monasky’s husband and father of their child, was left behind in Italy.  Taglieri availed himself of the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction (“Hague Convention”), a multilateral treaty designed to combat international parental child abduction.  From these facts followed years of litigation in federal court, which resulted in their baby (who will turn five years old in February 2020) being returned to Italy with her father.  Presently, the mother’s quest to return her child to the United States continues.  Following an en banc decision from the United States Court of Appeals for the Sixth Circuit, which issued a splintered opinion,[1] Monasky filed for a writ of certiorari with the United States Supreme Court, which was granted, and the Court held oral arguments on December 11, 2019.[2]

The underlying litigation in the Taglieri case provides a fascinating peek into the application of the Hague Convention to international parental child abduction cases.[3]  International parental child abduction is not uncommon when an international relationship deteriorates.[4]  The stakes are always high for the parties involved because the ultimate decision in every international child abduction case involves the life-changing decision as to what country’s court system will adjudicate a child’s custody.

Habitual residence is a critical element to Hague Convention cases since children are only afforded the protections of the Hague Convention if it is judicially determined that they have a habitual residence.  Among the circuits, three standards have developed to determine habitual residence: (1) a rebuttable presumption that the country in which the child has exclusively lived is the habitual residence;[5] (2) whether there was a shared parental intent to abandon the child’s habitual residence and adopt a new habitual residence;[6] and (3) whether the child has acclimatized in a country to a degree of settled purpose.[7]

The Sixth Circuit, prior to its recent en banc decision, utilized the rebuttable presumption standard in cases that involved young children who had been wrongfully removed from the country in which they exclusively lived.  The Taglieri opinion, however, replaced that presumption standard with the shared parental intent standard for very young children.  The decision defies the history of Sixth Circuit case law regarding the Hague Convention and the overarching goals of the Hague Convention.

Part II of this Article describes the Hague Convention, its goals, the distinction between wrongful removal and wrongful retention cases, and the meaning of habitual residence.  Part III details the development of Hague Convention case law and discusses the three different standards used to determine habitual residence.  Part IV then discusses the en banc decision in Taglieri: the relevant facts and procedural history, the flaws in the lead opinion, and the ways in which the concurring opinion most accurately reflects circuit precedent and the goals of the Hague Convention.

II.  Background: The Hague Convention

The Hague Convention is a multilateral treaty that “seeks to combat parental child abduction by providing a system of co-operation between Central Authorities and a rapid procedure for the return of the child to the country of the child’s habitual residence.”[8]  To date, the United States, along with ninety-eight other countries, has signed the Hague Convention.[9]  Significantly, a member state’s court may only consider petitions for the return of a child if both countries involved are signatories to the Hague Convention.[10]

The Hague Convention is invoked when a parent either wrongfully removes or wrongfully retains his or her child.[11]  The relocation across borders is considered wrongful when the parent taking the child does not have the right to change the child’s place of residence.[12]  Usually, the motive of an abducting parent is to “obtain a right of custody from the authorities of the country to which the child has been taken”[13] and ultimately gain sole custody of the child.[14]  Hence, the Convention aims to remove the incentive of abducting parents by halting the custody proceeding until there is a determination of the habitual residence of the child.[15]

The Hague Convention provides two main goals. The first goal is “to deter future child abductions,” and the second goal is to “provide a promptand efficientprocess for the return of the child to the status quo that existed before the abduction.”[16]  At the forefront of the Convention’s objectives is a restoration of the child’s status quo.[17]  The procedural mechanisms established by the Hague Convention do not evaluate the merits of the case, but are simply a determination of which country should be responsible for adjudicating the custody proceeding.[18]

In order for a court to consider a petition for return of a child pursuant to the Hague Convention, the removal or retention of the child must have been wrongful.[19]  Because of the factual distinctions between wrongful removal and wrongful retention cases, courts have developed different standards for the two types of international parental child abduction.[20]

The Hague Convention “places the child’s habitual residence front and center.”[21]  On a practical level, habitual residence is necessary to determine whether there was wrongful conduct.[22]  On a deeper level, however, the establishment of the habitual residence of a child is the basis upon which a child gains access to the protections of the Hague Convention.  The Hague Convention explicitly makes habitual residence a threshold inquiry.[23]  Thus, if a court determines that a child does not have a habitual residence or does not have a habitual residence in a contracting state, then the Hague Convention does not afford protection.[24]

Despite the importance of habitual residence, the drafters left this term undefined leaving courts the discretion to develop their own standards.[25]  As a result, “the Convention question that has seen the most appellate litigation and petitions for certiorari concerns the definition of habitual residence under the Hague Convention.  This has been a subject of ongoing debate among the federal courts of appeal, and in other Convention countries as well.”[26]

III.  The Development of Hague Convention Case Law in the Sixth Circuit[27]

The Sixth Circuit has adopted three different standards to determine a child’s habitual residence under the Hague Convention.[28]  First, when a child has resided exclusively in a single country, that country is presumed to be the child’s habitual residence.[29]  Next, when a child has lived in two or more countries, the Sixth Circuit begins by applying an acclimatization standard.[30]  Finally, when a child has lived in two or more countries and habitual residence cannot be determined through an acclimatization standard, the Sixth Circuit defers to the use of a shared parental intent test.[31]  These standards are reflective of how other circuits have analyzed habitual residence.[32]

A. Rebuttable presumption of habitual residence when child has exclusively lived in one country

Friedrich v. Friedrich,[33] the first Hague Convention case decided by the Sixth Circuit, developed a presumption of habitual residence where a child has exclusively lived in one country.[34]  There, the court was tasked with determining “when the removal of a child from one country to another by one parent, without the consent of the other, is ‘wrongful’ as defined by the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction.”[35]

At the time of this case, the Sixth Circuit noted that “no United States cases provides guidance on the construction of habitual residence.”[36]  Nevertheless, the court found this to be a “simple case” because the child was “born in Germany and resided exclusively in Germany until his mother removed him to the United States.”[37]  Thus, the court determined that the child was a habitual resident of Germany.  The mother’s subjective and future desires to return to the United States with her son were “irrelevant to [the court’s] inquiry.”[38]  Instead, the court indicated that the focus must remain “on the child, not the parents, and examine past experiences, not future intentions.”[39]  The Friedrich decision stands for the principle that in situations where a child has been wrongfully removed from a country in which he has exclusively lived, the child is a habitual resident of that country.[40]

B. Acclimatization

 The acclimatization standard was developed in Feder v. Evans-Feder,[41] the “first post-Friedrich court of appeals decision to consider the meaning of habitual residence.”[42]  In Feder, the Third Circuit held that “a child’s habitual residence is the place where he or she has been physically present for an amount of time sufficient for acclimatization, and which has a degree of settled purpose from the child’s perspective.”[43]  The acclimatization approach considers “a child’s experience in and contacts with her surroundings, focusing on whether she develop[ed] a certain routine and acquire[d] a sense of environmental normalcy.”[44]  Courts will consider whether a child has formed meaningful connections with people and places encountered prior to the retention date.[45]  The ultimate goal is to determine “whether a child has made a country her home before the date of her removal or retention.”[46]  The acclimatization standard can be difficult to apply in circumstances involving young children[47] because the time spent in a given location is “but one component of acclimatization.”[48]  Therefore, especially young children, and infants in particular, simply lack the cognizance to make these meaningful connections.[49]

In Robert v. Tesson,[50] the Sixth Circuit simultaneously adopted the acclimatization standard and rejected the shared parental intent standard.[51]  This case presented an issue of first impression in the Sixth Circuit—how to determine habitual residence in wrongful retention cases.[52]  Ultimately the court adopted the Feder test,[53] finding that the adoption of the Feder standard for acclimatization was consistent with its Friedrich decision because it focused on the child’s perspective rather than the parents’ perspective, and it required courts to focus on past experiences, not future intentions.[54]  The court concluded that the children were habitual residents of the United States.[55]  In coming to this conclusion, the court relied on different markers to determine acclimatization, including “academic activities,” “sports programs and excursions, and meaningful connections with people and places.”[56]

C. Shared Parental Intent

Shared parental intent asks as its primary inquiry whether there was “settled intent on the part of the parents to abandon the child’s prior habitual residence.”[57]  As a backstop, this standard recognizes that if the “objective facts point unequivocally to a [child’s] ordinary or habitual residence being in a particular place,” then he or she can have a habitual residence without the prerequisite of settled intent of the parents to change habitual residence.[58]  Hence, the shared parental intent standard starts with the intentions of the parents and uses an acclimatization-like inquiry as a secondary analysis when there is a lack of shared parental intent.

In Mozes v. Mozes,[59] the Ninth Circuit concluded that “the first step toward acquiring a new habitual residence is forming a settled intention to abandon the one left behind.”[60]  Because “[c]hildren, particularly the ones whose return may be ordered under the Convention, normally lack the material and physiological wherewithal to decide where they will reside,” the relevant intent is the “person or persons entitled to fix the place of the child’s residence.”[61]

The Sixth Circuit routinely rejected the opportunity to adopt and apply shared parental intent, as laid out in Mozes.[62]  So Ahmed v. Ahmed,[63] which adopts shared parental intent, marks a significant change in Sixth Circuit jurisprudence.  Although the District Court applied the acclimatization standard,[64] the Court of Appeals, found that because of the young age of the children, that standard could not be meaningfully applied.  The approximately ten months since the twins had been born was littered with international travel,[65] making the “analysis” simply a comparison between how much time the twins had spent in the United States versus the United Kingdom.  Furthermore, the Court of Appeals held that “incorporating the shared parental intent standard in cases concerning especially young children would mean addressing a gap, not overturning precedent,”[66] consistent with “the law of our sister circuits.”[67]  Because the intent of the Ahmeds was either “unclear” or “absent” for the relevant time period, Mr. Ahmed was unable to carry his burden in proving that the United Kingdom was the twins’ habitual residence.[68]  Put another way, this meant that the twins did not have a habitual residence and therefore were not protected by the Hague Convention.  Thus, the country in which the twins had been wrongfully retained would adjudicate the custody proceeding.

IV.  The Taglieri Case

A.     Factual and Procedural Background

Domenico Taglieri, an Italian citizen, met Michelle Monasky, a United States citizen, while studying for a doctoral degree at the University of Illinois at Chicago.[69]  The pair married in September 2011 and mutually decided to pursue career opportunities in Italy.[70]  Domenico returned to Italy in February 2013 and began working as a physician.[71]  Monasky joined him in July 2013.[72]  Monasky, who has a Ph.D. in biology, received a two-year fellowship with Humanitas Hospital where she worked until she started her maternity leave.[73]

As is typical in Hague Convention cases, there is much dispute over what actually happened.  However, by the time Monasky became pregnant in May 2014, their marriage was certainly experiencing difficulties.[74]  Monasky alleged she began looking for employment in the United States in 2014.[75]  However, in January 2015, she requested an extension of her fellowship in Italy.[76]

Amidst the difficult pregnancy and tumultuous marriage, the couple welcomed their daughter, A.M.T., in February 2015.[77]  Around the same time, Monasky allegedly introduced the idea of divorce to Taglieri.[78]  Nevertheless, after recovering in the hospital, Monasky and their newborn daughter moved to Lugo so that Taglieri could help with Monasky’s recovery and care for their daughter.[79]

On March 31, 2015, the couple had an argument.[80]  Monasky fled their home in Lugo and went to the police, who placed her in an Italian safe house.[81]  On April 15, 2015, Monasky abducted their eight-week-old daughter to the United States without the consent or knowledge of Taglieri.[82]  On May 14, 2015, Taglieri filed for the return of his daughter to Italy pursuant to the Hague Convention on the basis that she had been wrongfully removed from her habitual residence.[83]

After a four-day bench trial, the District Court determined that A.M.T.’s habitual residence was Italy.[84]  This decision was affirmed by the Court of Appeals.  The majority opinion noted “[o]ur precedent has demonstrated that where a child lives exclusively in one country that country is presumed to be the child’s habitual residence.”[85]  The majority further held that Sixth Circuit’s recent Ahmed decision was distinguishable from the facts of Taglieri, and therefore inapplicable.  Monasky’s motion for a rehearing en banc was granted, and the case was reargued on June 13, 2018, with a decision rendered on October 17, 2018.[86]

B.     Analysis of the En Banc Opinion

Although the granting of an en banc hearing is intended to provide clarity on the law of the circuit, the fractured Taglieri opinion achieved the opposite result.  Instead, the court delivered a lead opinion, a concurrence, and three dissenting opinions.  The lead opinion oversimplifies and mischaracterizes Hague Convention jurisprudence.  It relies on a reading of Ahmed that ignores Sixth Circuit precedent and the goals of the Hague Convention.  The concurring opinion, written by Judge Boggs, most accurately reflects the Sixth Circuit case law, appropriately interprets the Ahmed decision, and furthers the purpose of the Hague Convention.

The lead en banc opinion is based on a questionable understanding of the scope of Ahmed.  It interprets Ahmed to stand for the principle that there are “two ways to identify a child’s habitual residence.”[87]  The primary approach is to look at the place in which the child has been acclimatized and the second, “back-up inquiry for children too young or too disabled to become acclimatized, looks to shared parental intent.”[88]

Significantly, this approach misses the distinction between wrongful retention and wrongful removal cases.  The court in Ahmed was quick to point out that it was writing an opinion for a wrongful retention case in which the children were too young to meaningfully acclimatize.[89]  This is a subset of wrongful retention cases that consistently presents the most difficult facts, a nuance the lead en banc opinion misses.[90]  Courts apply different standards for cases, such as Taglieri, where children have exclusively lived in one country prior to the wrongful removal.[91]  The majority overlooked this distinction through its wholesale adoption of Ahmed and disregard for the distinction between wrongful removal and wrongful retention cases.

As noted by Judge Boggs, the Sixth Circuit already had a standard for “cases such as this one.”[92]  In fact, the en banc concurrence is premised on the judges’ issue with the “characterization that all Hague Convention cases are to be governed by a strict two-part test attributed to . . . Ahmed.”[93]  Consistent with precedent dating back to Friedrich, “absent unusual circumstances, where a child has resided exclusively in a single country, especially with both parents, that country is the child’s habitual residence.”[94]

The drafters of the Hague Convention intended habitual residence to be a “question of pure fact.”[95]  The habitual residence inquiry requires courts to “look closely at the facts and circumstances of each case.”[96]  The development of Sixth Circuit case law reflects the factual nature of habitual residence.  The first time the Sixth Circuit faced a Hague Convention case, it was “simple” because the child had only ever lived in one country.  As the Sixth Circuit was confronted with more complex factual scenarios, such as cross-border wrongful retention, the Sixth Circuit developed the acclimatization standard.  The facts of Ahmed presented an even more difficult issue: how to decide the habitual residence of infants who have lived in more than one country?  The Sixth Circuit adopted the shared parental intent standard to handle this class of cases.  It is clear that the adoption of the shared parental intent standard was not meant to supplant the other methods.  The overhaul of Sixth Circuit case law that the lead opinion advocates is simply not necessary.[97]  Ahmed and Taglieri are unquestionably distinguishable.  Applying a shared parental intent standard to the facts of Taglieri reflects a lack of understanding as to the development of habitual residence jurisprudence in the Sixth Circuit.  The Ahmed decision does not apply to Taglieri, nor should it apply.

The most obvious distinction between Ahmed and Taglieri is that the former is a wrongful retention case and the latter is a wrongful removal case.[98]  Mr. Ahmed gave his wife permission to travel with their children and was aware of the travel.[99]  In contrast, Taglieri never gave Monasky the authority to remove their daughter from Italy and did not discover the abduction until after the removal had taken place.[100]  This critical distinction is why Ahmed is a wrongful retention case and Taglieri is a wrongful removal case.  An equally critical distinction is that the Ahmed twins had lived in more than one country prior to their retention[101] whereas A.M.T. had never left Italy.[102]  Hence, the Friedrich presumption was available in Taglieri but unavailable in Ahmed.  Although Ahmed and Taglieri both involve infants, the dispositive distinction is that Ahmed is a wrongful retention case and Taglieri is a wrongful removal case.[103]

Moreover, not only is Taglieri easily distinguished from Ahmed, but it is almost identical in facts to Friedrich.  Because Friedrich is still good law in the Sixth Circuit,[104] it should control the decision in Taglieri.  Both Friedrich and Taglieri involve American women working and living in a country that is the home of their spouse.[105]  In both cases, the couples decide to have a child despite signs of a tumultuous marriage.[106]  And in both cases, the mothers abducted their children from the only country they have ever called home to bring them to the United States.[107]  All of the legally relevant facts in Taglieri mirror those found in Friedrich.  It only makes sense that Friedrich should control the outcome of Taglieri and that the presumption the court found in Friedrich should also apply to Taglieri.

There are also strong policy implications against adopting the strict two-part Ahmed standard for all Hague Convention cases.  Applying the two-part Ahmed standard to wrongful removal cases involving infants and young children would actually encourage child abduction and lengthen the process for the prompt return of a child to status quo, which is opposite the Convention’s first goal.  The Friedrich presumption is better positioned to deter future child abductions and provide a prompt return to status quo than shared parental intent because under this presumption a parent will not be rewarded with a “more sympathetic court” by abducting a child who has lived exclusively in one country prior to removal.[108]  A shared parental intent standard, on the other hand, allows the abducting parent to argue there was no habitual residence based solely on their subjective intent.

Furthermore, there is a concern that a strict adoption of the Ahmed two-part standard will lead to an increase in cases finding that children lack a habitual residence.[109]  This standard “all too often will compel the conclusion that a very young child is without a habitual residence.  It therefore conflicts with the very purposes of the Hague Convention by leaving many young children unprotected”[110] because a determination that a child has no habitual residence leaves the child unprotected from the Hague Convention.[111]  The Ahmed structure makes a determination of habitual residence more difficult for young children, in large part because it is difficult to discern shared parental intent in Hague Convention cases.[112]  A shared parental intent standard creates an incentive to re-interpret history to make it seem as though there was no shared parental intent.  If a parent is successful in these efforts, then the child will be left without a habitual residence and “parents who are at odds with one another will be able to ‘freely engage in a continuous game of abduction ping pong.’”[113]  The Taglieri case highlights this concern.  Although the District Court found a shared parental intent to raise A.M.T. in Italy, there were certainly facts which would support a finding of no shared parental intent.[114]  In using the shared parental intent standard, the District Court gave Monasky an opportunity to overshadow the objective facts with her subjective intentions—this is unacceptable.

The second goal of the Hague Convention, the prompt return of children to their status quo, is best furthered by the Friedrich presumption.  Hague Convention cases are intended to be speedy and have an “expected time frame for handling . . . [of] six weeks.”[115]  To achieve this speed, “the Convention urges trial and appellate courts to use the most expeditious procedures that are available to hear and issue a ruling on the case.”[116]  Presuming the country in which a child has exclusively lived to be the child’s habitual residence is the most efficient procedure.  The reality is that Hague Convention cases can drag on for years.  The Friedrich presumption may not solve this efficiency crisis for every classification of Hague Convention cases, but it could go a long way in expediting cases in which a child has been wrongfully removed from the country in which the child has exclusively resided.

The Taglieri case illuminates this contention.  Taglieri filed an action in the Northern District of Ohio for the return of his daughter to Italy on May 14, 2015.[117]  The District Court opinion was not released until September 14, 2016, significantly past the six-week target timeline.[118]  And the Supreme Court will not issue its decision until 2020.  Hague Convention cases have turned into complicated and lengthy proceedings, which will be made worse by the adoption of the Ahmed two-step standard for all Hague Convention cases.

V.  Conclusion

The Taglieri case presents a narrow legal issue.  It asks how courts should determine habitual residence for infants in wrongful removal cases when they have been removed from the only country in which they have resided.  A look at Sixth Circuit precedent and an understanding of the policies behind the Hague Convention indicate that the court, in rehearing the case en banc, erred in finding that the Ahmed two-step standard was applicable in this situation.  The concerns raised by the lead opinion are resolved through the possibility of rebutting the presumption.  Dating back to Friedrich, the Sixth Circuit has consistently held that when a child has lived exclusively in one country prior to removal, that country is presumed to be the habitual residence.  The departure from this standard to a shared parental intent standard runs counter to the goals of the Hague Convention and will leave infants vulnerable to parental child abduction.


* J.D. Candidate 2020, Wake Forest University School of Law.  Politics and Government and Economics, B.A. Ohio Wesleyan University.  I would like to thank my family and friends for their support throughout law school and the writing of this Article.  Particular thanks to my parents Amy and Rick Hamilton, who inspired me to want to become an attorney.  I am forever grateful for their constant love and support. 

       [1].   Taglieri v. Monasky (Taglieri II), 907 F.3d 404 (6th Cir. 2018) (en banc)

       [2].   See Amy Howe, Argument Analysis: Justices Debate Determination of “Habitual Residence” for Infants in International Custody Cases, SCOTUSblog (Dec. 11, 2019, 4:29 PM), https://www.scotusblog.com/2019/12/argument-analysis-justices-debate-determination-of-habitual-residence-for-infants-in-international-child-custody-cases/.

       [3].   The Sixth Circuit’s en banc decision highlights not only the different reasoning and approaches taken by the eighteen judges who decided this case, but also the divergent approaches adopted by sister circuits in dealing with similar cases. 

       [4].   For example, in 2015, the United States received 313 return applications involving 461 children.  See Hague Conf. on Priv. Int’l Law et al., The Seventh Meeting of the Special Commission on the Practical Operation of the 1980 Hague Child Abduction Convention and the 1996 Hague Child Protection Convention – October 2017, at 142–44 (Oct. 2017), https://assets.hcch.net/docs/6ca61ff3-5ca6-4fbe-a79a-cb6e7485f4b0.pdf.

       [5].   Taglieri II, 907 F.3d at 411.

       [6].   Id. at 407.

       [7].   Id.

       [8].   Outline: The Convention of 25 October 1980 on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction, Hague Conference on Private International Law 1 (May 2014), https://assets.hcch.net/docs/e6a6a977-40c5-47b2-a380-b4ec3a0041a8.pdf.

       [9].   Hague Convention Countries 2019, World Population Rev. (Oct. 1, 2019), http://worldpopulationreview.com/countries/hague-convention-countries/.

     [10].   James D. Garbolino, The 1980 Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction: A Guide for Judges, Fed. Jud. Cent., at x (2012), https://www.fjc.gov/sites/default/files/2012/HagueGuide.pdf (using the qualifying language “Contracting State”).

     [11].   Id. at ix.  A “child abduction” occurs when there is a wrongful removal from, or a non-return to, a child’s country of “habitual residence” by a parent of the child.  See International Parental Child Abduction: Patterns, Legal Framework, Services Offered, Int’l Soc. Serv. 1 (Oct. 17, 2017), https://assets.hcch.net/docs/433be3b2-531e-4536-97ee-9d0e63dd0518.pdf.

     [12].   Garbolino, supra note 10, at ix (noting that, most commonly, this arises when “one parent relocates with a child across an international border without the consent of the left-behind parent or without a court order permitting that relocation.”).

     [13].   Eliza Pérez–Vera, Explanatory Report, ¶ 13, 3 Hague Conference on Private International Law, Acts and Documents of the Fourteenth Session, Child Abduction 426 (1982) [hereinafter Perez–Vera Report].

     [14].   Mozes v. Mozes, 239 F.3d 1067, 1070 (9th Cir. 2001).

     [15].   Id.

     [16].   Garbolino, supra note 10, at 6; see also Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction, Oct. 25, 1980, 1343 U.N.T.S. 89 (Hague Conference on Private International Law) ¶ 1 [hereinafter Hague Convention].

     [17].   Perez–Vera Report, supra note 13, at ¶¶ 12, 16.  The Convention should be read to prevent a circumstance where “the child is taken out of the family and social environment in which its life has developed.”  See Robert v. Tesson, 507 F.3d 981, 991 (6th Cir. 2007) (quoting Perez–Vera Report ¶ 12).

     [18].   Hague Convention, supra note 16, at art. 19; Perez–Vera Report, supra note 13, at ¶ 19.

     [19].   Hague Convention, supra note 16, at art. 3.  There are two types of removal or retention, which are deemed “wrongful” under the Hague Convention and constitute an abduction.  See id.  First, wrongful removal occurs when a parent takes a child from his or her habitual residence without the permission of the other parent.  See id.; see also Friedrich v. Friedrich, 983 F.2d 1396, 1399 (6th Cir. 1993).  Second, wrongful retention occurs when both parents agree to allow the children to travel away from the habitual residence, but one parent decides not to return the children to their habitual residence.  See id.; see also Mozes, 239 F.3d at 1069.  “This frequently occurs when a parent leaves with a child for a visit or vacation in another country.”  Garbolino, supra note 10, at 24.

     [20].   See Friedrich, 983 F.2d at 1402 (creating the rebuttable presumption for wrongful removal cases in the Sixth Circuit); see also Robert, 507 F.3d at 992–93 (adopting the acclimatization standard for wrongful retention cases).  One major distinction between these two types of child abduction cases is that wrongful removal cases often involve a single jurisdiction whereas wrongful retention cases are inherently a multi-jurisdictional question.  Compare Friedrich, 983 F.2d at 1401 (involving a child who had only lived in one country prior to the wrongful removal) with Mozes, 239 F.3d at 1069 (involving children who had lived in two countries prior to the wrongful retention).  But see Simcox v. Simcox, 511 F.3d 594, 599 (6th Cir. 2007) (involving a wrongful removal case involving multiple jurisdictions).  Additionally, wrongful removal cases are distinct because unlike wrongful retention cases, there was never an agreement between the parents that their child would leave his or her habitual residence.  See Garbolino, supra note 10, at 24.  This is in contrast with wrongful retention cases, which begin with the lawful travel of a child across borders.  See id.

     [21].   Taglieri II, 907 F.3d 404, 405 (6th Cir. 2018) (en banc).

     [22].   Garbolino, supra note 10, at 41 (noting that habitual residence is the “starting point” because without it a court cannot determine whether a child was wrongfully removed or retained from a country).

     [23].   Hague Convention, supra note 16, at art. 4 (stating that Article 4 shall “apply to any child who was habitually resident in a Contracting State immediately before any breach of custody or access rights”).

     [24].   See Garbolino, supra note 10, at 41 & n.154; Ann Laquer Estin, The Hague Abduction Convention and the United States Supreme Court, 48 Fam. L.Q. 235, 236 (2014).

     [25].   The drafters of the Hague Convention did not “dwell . . . upon the notion of habitual residence.”  Perez–Vera Report, supra note 13, at ¶ 66.

     [26].   Estin, supra note 24, at 247.

     [27].   The Supreme Court has yet to speak on the issue of habitual residence, although its impending decision in this case will likely provide some guidance to the lower courts.

     [28].   Taglieri v. Monasky (Taglieri I), 876 F.3d 868, 876 (6th Cir. 2017), aff’d, 907 F.3d 404 (6th Cir. 2018) (en banc).

     [29].   Id.

     [30].   Id.

     [31].   Id.

     [32].   See, e.g., Koch v. Koch, 450 F.3d 703, 713–15 (7th Cir. 2006); Holder v. Holder, 392 F.3d 1009, 1015 (9th Cir. 2004); Feder v. Evans–Feder, 63 F.3d 217, 224 (3d Cir. 1995).

     [33].   983 F.2d 1396 (6th Cir. 1993).

     [34].   Id. at 1398.

     [35].   Id.

     [36].   Id. at 1401.

     [37].   Id. at 1402.

     [38].   Id. at 1401.

     [39].   Id.

     [40].   Id. at 1402.

     [41].   63 F.3d 217 (3d Cir. 1995)

     [42].   Robert v. Tesson, 507 F.3d 981, 992 (6th Cir. 2007).

     [43].   Id. (quoting Feder, 63 F.3d at 224).

     [44].   Karkkainen v. Kovalchuk, 445 F.3d 280, 292 (3d Cir. 2006).

     [45].   Id.

     [46].   Id.

     [47].   Robert, 507 F.3d at 992 n.4.

     [48].   Ahmed v. Ahmed, 867 F.3d 682, 689 (6th Cir. 2017).  What a child “does in a country” and “how she feels about it” are as important as the length of the stay.  Id.

     [49].   See id.  The court recognized, however, that determining acclimatization may be difficult for especially young children and disabled children because they often lack the cognizance to meaningfully acclimatize.  See id.; see also Robert, 507 F.3d at 992 n.4.

     [50].   507 F.3d 981 (6th Cir. 2007).

     [51].   Id. at 992.

     [52].   Ivan Robert (a French citizen) and Gayle Tesson (a United States citizen) were married in the United States on January 6, 1996.  Id. at 984.  On May 22, 1997, the couple welcomed the birth of twin boys in Houston, Texas.  Id.  The family lived in the United States until their move to France in December of 1998.  Id.  Over the course of approximately five years, the twin boys regularly moved back and forth between France and the United States.  Id. at 984–87.

     [53].   Id. at 992–93.

     [54].   Id. at 993.

     [55].   Id. at 995.

     [56].   Id. at 996 (quoting Karkkainen v. Kovalchuk, 445 F.3d 280, 293–94 (3d Cir. 2006)).

     [57].   Mozes v. Mozes, 239 F.3d 1067, 1081 (9th Cir. 2001).

     [58].   Id. (quoting Zenel v. Haddow (1993) SC 612, 617, SLT 975, 979 (Scot.)).

     [59].   239 F.3d 1067 (9th Cir. 2001).

     [60].   Id. at 1075.

     [61].   Id. at 1076.

     [62].   See, e.g., Robert v. Tesson, 507 F.3d 981, 991 (6th Cir. 2007) (rejecting the shared parental intent standard articulated in Mozes, branding it inconsistent with Friedrich because itdoes not “focus[] solely on the past experiences of the child,” but rather looks to the parents’ subjective intentions in determining a child’s habitual residence.); Panteleris v. Panteleris, 601 Fed. App’x 345, 350 (6th Cir. 2015) (unpublished).

     [63].   867 F.3d 682 (6th Cir. 2017).

     [64].   Being “bound by circuit court precedent,” the district court applied the acclimatization standard; as such, the district court considered “whether the child has been physically present in the country for an amount of time sufficient for acclimatization and whether the place has a degree of settled purpose from the child’s perspective.”  Id. at 687 (quoting Simcox v. Simcox, 511 F.3d 594, 602 (6th Cir. 2007)).

     [65].   Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 684–86.

     [66].   Id. at 689.

     [67].   Id.

     [68].   Id. at 691.

     [69].   Taglieri I, 876 F.3d 868, 871 (6th Cir. 2017).

     [70].   Id.

     [71].   Id.

     [72].   Id.

     [73].   Id. at 871–72.

     [74].   Id.

     [75].   Id. at 872.

     [76].   Taglieri v. Monasky, No. 1:15 CV 947, 2016 WL 10951269, at *2 (N.D. Ohio Sept. 14, 2016).

     [77].   Id. at *1–*2.

     [78].   Id. at *2.

     [79].   Id. at *3.

     [80].   Id.

     [81].   Id. at *4.

     [82].   Taglieri I, 876 F.3d 868, 874 (6th Cir. 2017).

     [83].   Id.

     [84].   Id.

     [85].   Id. at 871.

     [86].   Taglieri II, 907 F.3d 404, 407 (6th Cir. 2018) (en banc).

     [87].   Id.

     [88].   Id.

     [89].   Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 684 n.1.

     [90].   This point is furthered by looking at the cases the majority cites when stating “[e]very circuit to consider the question looks to both standards.”  Taglieri II, 907 F.3d at 407–08.  The eleven cases that the court cites all involve children who have lived in more than one country and involve wrongful retention by a parent.  See Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 689; Mauvais v. Herisse, 772 F.3d 6, 11 (1st Cir. 2014); Chafin v. Chafin, 742 F.3d 934, 938–39 (11th Cir. 2013); Redmond v. Redmond, 724 F.3d 729, 746 (7th Cir. 2013); Guzzo v. Cristofano, 719 F.3d 100, 110 (2d Cir. 2013); Larbie v. Larbie, 690 F.3d 295, 310 (5th Cir. 2012); Barzilay v. Barzilay, 600 F.3d 912, 918 (8th Cir. 2010); Maxwell v. Maxwell, 588 F.3d 245, 253 (4th Cir. 2009); Karkkainen v. Kovalchuk, 445 F.3d 280, 296 (3d Cir. 2006); Holder v. Holder, 392 F.3d 1009, 1020 (9th Cir. 2004); Kanth v. Kanth, No. 99-4246, 2000 WL 1644099, at *1–2 (10th Cir. Nov. 2, 2000).  Thus, the lead opinion misleads the reader by saying that every circuit to consider the issue uses a two-fold analysis like Ahmed.  This may be true for wrongful retention cases, but it is not true for wrongful removal cases.

     [91].   Sister circuits have adopted a presumption similar to that found in Friedrich for young children who have lived exclusively in one country prior to wrongful removal.  See, e.g., Larbie, 690 F.3d at 298 (5th Cir. 2012); see also Tsarbopoulos v. Tsarbopoulos, 176 F. Supp. 2d 1045, 1057 (E.D. Wash. 2001).

     [92].   Taglieri II, 907 F.3d at 411 (Boggs, J., concurring).

     [93].   Id.

     [94].   Id.

     [95].   The Hague Convention’s explanatory report treats the habitual residence of a child as a “question of pure fact.”  Pérez-Vera Report, supra note 13, at ¶ 66.

     [96].   Panteleris v. Panteleris, 601 Fed. App’x 346, 349 (6th Cir. 2015) (unpublished).

     [97].   See Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 689 (“Consequently, incorporating the shared parental intent standard in cases concerning especially young children would mean addressing a gap, not overturning precedent.”).

     [98].   Id. at 684 n.1; Taglieri II, 907 F.3d at 407.

     [99].   Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 685–86.

   [100].   Taglieri I, 876 F.3d 868, 874 (6th Cir. 2017).

   [101].   Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 685–86.

   [102].   Taglieri I, 876 F.3d at 874.

   [103].   See Taglieri II, 907 F.3d at 408.

   [104].   See Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 689 (discussing the fact that shared parental intent was not overturning circuit precedent).

   [105].   Friedrich v. Friedrich, 983 F.2d 1396, 1398 (6th Cir. 1993); Taglieri II, 907 F.3d at 406.

   [106].   Friedrich, 983 F.2d at 1398–99; Taglieri II, 907 F.3d at 406.

   [107].   Friedrich, 983 F.2d at 1398–99; Taglieri II, 907 F.3d at 406–07.

   [108].   Friedrich v. Friedrich, 78 F.3d 1060, 1064 (6th Cir. 1996).

   [109].   Taglieri II, 907 F.3d at 412.

   [110].   Id. at 415.

   [111].   Id. at 411.

   [112].   Id. at 412.

   [113].   Id. at 415 (quoting Ovalle v. Perez, 681 Fed. App’x 777, 784 (11th Cir. 2017) (per curiam)).

   [114].   See Taglieri v. Monasky, No. 1:15 CV 947, 2016 WL 10951269, at *8, *10 (N.D. Ohio Sept. 14, 2016).

   [115].   Garbolino, supra note 10, at x; Hague Convention, supra note 16, at art. 11.

   [116].   Garbolino, supra note 10, at x, 115–18 (discussing expeditious handling of Hague Convention cases).  Yet a 2018 report published by the Hague Convention indicated that on average, it took the United States a longer time to reach a final settlement in the return applications compared to the global average.  See Nigel Lowe & Victoria Stephens, Part III – A Statistical Analysis of Applications Made in 2015 Under the Hague Convention of 25 October 1980 on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction – National Reports 142 (July 2018), https://assets.hcch.net/docs/6ca61ff3-5ca6-4fbe-a79a-cb6e7485f4b0.pdf.  Thus, the United States has a particularly difficult time with quick disposition of Hague Convention cases.

   [117].   Taglieri I, 876 F.3d 868, 874 (6th Cir. 2017).

   [118].   Taglieri, 2016 WL 10951269, at *1.

By Marcus Fields

            Today in Lee Graham Shopping Center, LLC v. Estate of Diane Z. Kirsch, a published opinion, the Fourth Circuit determined that the relevant Partnership Agreement was unambiguous in its prohibition of gift transfers of partnership interests to non-family members. Therefore the late Kirsch’s transfer of her partnership interest to Wayne Cullen via a revocable trust was invalid and the District Court was correct in granting summary judgment to the Partnership.

The Partnership Agreement and Contested Transfer of Kirsch’s Interest

In 1984, Dr. Paul Zehfuss and Eugene Smith converted the Lee Graham Shopping Center partnership, which they had founded in 1969, to a limited partnership – adopting a partnership agreement at the same time. Dr. Zehfuss died the following year and through his will, as well as gifts before his death, twenty one percent interest in the Partnership ultimately passed to his daughter, Diane Kirsch. In 2011, Kirsch was diagnosed with terminal cancer and in the process of estate planning assigned her limited partnership interest to the Kirsch Trust. The Kirsch Trust provided that the limited partnership interest would pass to the Cullen Trust, established for her long-term companion Wayne Cullen. Kirsch died the following year and in February 2013 the Partnership filed suit claiming that the Partnership Agreement prohibited the transfer of Kirsch’s interest to the Cullen Trust. The District Court for the Eastern District of Virginia granted summary judgment for the Partnership.

Jurisdiction was Proper:  Case does not Fall Within Probate Exception to Federal Diversity Jurisdiction

Cullen, a Maryland citizen, challenged the subject matter jurisdiction of the District Court claiming that the case fell within the probate exception to federal diversity jurisdiction. Citing the 2006 Supreme Court Case Marshall v. Marshall, the Fourth Circuit explained that this exception was to be construed narrowly and was limited to two types of cases: “(1) those that require the court to probate or annul a will or to administer a decedent’s estate, and (2) those that require the court to dispose of property in the custody of a state probate court.” The Fourth Circuit pointed out that the present case did not require the court to interpret or act on Kirsch’s will and that the property in question was in the custody of the Cullen Trust, not the probate court. Thus the probate exception does not apply and the court has subject matter jurisdiction under 28 U.S.C. § 1332.

The Partnership Agreement Does Not Permit Gift Transfers to Non-Family Members

The 1984 Partnership Agreement addresses the “Assignment of Limited Partner’s Interest,” in Section 6.02. The introductory clause to that section states that “[t]he interest of each Limited Partner in the Partnership shall be assignable subject to the following terms and conditions.” Cullen argues that this clause generally allows for the transfer of a Limited Partner’s interest unless restricted by the subsequent subsections (6.02(a)-(e)). Section 6.02(a) is titled “Limitations on Assignment,” and essentially creates a right of first refusal for the Partnership and all current partners. 6.02(e), titled “Family Transfers” provides that “[t]he sale or other transfer by a Partner, whether inter vivos or by will, of his Partnership interest … shall not be subject to the restrictions or limitations of Section 6.02(a)” if made to a family member.

The Fourth Circuit found that “[t]he clear reading of Section 6.02 as a whole is that interests may only be assigned pursuant to the terms of either 6.02(a) or 6.02(e).” It reasoned that to find otherwise would render the introductory clause and the clause in 6.02(e) – dealing with “other types of transfers between family members – superfluous. If transfers other than sales were generally allowed without restriction based on the introductory clause, as Cullen argues, then there would be no need to explicitly allow for non-sale transfers to family members in 6.02(e). The Fourth Circuit was also persuaded by the fact that both 6.02(a) and 6.02(e) served to provide favored treatment of family members because at the time the agreement was written the interests were held by the original partners or their family members.

Judgment of the District Court is Affirmed

In addition to the two issues discussed above, Cullen raised 10 additional issues as part of this appeal. The Fourth Circuit dispensed with these in a footnote, stating that “We have independently reviewed the record and we find that each of these contentions has either been waived or has no merit.” Thus the District Court’s grant of summary judgment was appropriate.

By Joshua P. Bussen

Today, in Smedley v. Smedley, the Fourth Circuit affirmed a decision by the Eastern District of North Carolina to accord comity to a German appellate court decision. In doing so it allowed a mother to return back to Germany with her children.

 Defendant Claims German Court Was Incorrect

The defendant raised two issues on appeal. First, that the German court clearly misinterpreted the Hague Convention because it failed to make a habitual-residence determination before addressing the defense of consent. Second, that the German court’s decision did not meet a minimum standard of reasonableness because the court unreasonably relied on contradictory evidence in making its credibility determination.

To Germany and Back

In 2000, Mark and Daniela Smedley married in Germany. Mark was stationed there as a member of the United States Army. Over the next five years the Smedleys had two children—A.H.S. and G.A.S. The family continued to live primarily in Bamberg, Germany until August 2010 when Mark was transferred to North Carolina. The family relocated from Germany to Swansboro, North Carolina. Mark and Daniela’s relationship began to deteriorate over the months following the move and in May 2011 Daniela returned to Germany with the children—allegedly with the consent of Mark. Daniela and Mark’s story differ as to the details, but it was clear that in late July 2011 Daniela informed Mark that she would be remaining in Germany with the children.

On September 2, 2011, Mark obtained a temporary custody order from the District Court of Onslow County in Swansboro. He then filed a Hague petition in Germany seeking the children’s return. The German court denied his petition due to findings of that Mark had physically abused A.H.S. and that Mark had consented to Daniela and the children moving back to Germany.

In 2013, Daniela agreed to let the children visit Mark in America. Mark was under express orders from Daniela to return the children within roughly twenty days. On August 27, 2013, Mark informed Daniela that he would not be returning the children. Daniela filed a Hague petition in the E.D.N.C. and that court accorded comity to the German court’s decision; holding that the children should remain in Germany with their mother. This appeal followed.

 The Hague Convention & Comity

Hague Convention: Under the International Child Abduction Remedies Act, the goals of the Hague Convention are “to secure the prompt return of children wrongfully removed to or retained in any [State under the Convention]” and ensure rights of custody are respected by different States. Under Article 3 of the Hague Convention, the removal of a child is wrongful if it breaches a person’s rights of custody “under the law of the State in which the child was habitually resident.” However, if a child will be placed in danger, or if the party consented to the removal, the return of the child is not required. Courts in State’s that adhere to the Hague Convention should not overturn another foreign court’s decision unless the court: (1) clearly misinterprets the Hague Convention, (2) contravenes the Convention’s fundamental objectives, or (3) fails to meet a minimum standard of reasonableness.

Comity: The Fourth Circuit defined comity as: “A practice among political entities involving . . . mutual recognition of legislative, executive, and judicial acts.”

 The Fourth Circuit’s Rationale

On the defendant’s first issue, the Fourth Circuit held that the Hague Convention does not set out a roadmap, only principles. Therefore, “[e]ven if the German court had assumed that the children were habitual resident of North Carolina when Daniela took them to Germany, the finding that Mark consented to that move would have still provided her with an affirmative defense to wrongful removal.” The court cited the similarity between this situation and the common American process of granting summary judgment based on an affirmative defense after assuming that the plaintiff made out a prima facie case.

On the defendant’s second issue, the Fourth Circuit found that the German court’s decision was “at least minimally reasonable.” According to this court, the German court had sufficient facts that tended to show that Daniela’s story was more credible than Mark’s. Because a showing of “minimal reasonableness” is sufficient to accord comity to a foreign court, the Fourth Circuit refused to overturn the credibility determinations made by the German Court.

Outcome

The Fourth Circuit found that the German court had sufficient evidence to grant Daniela custody of the children. Therefore the “minimally reasonable” burden was satisfied and the grant of comity by the lower court was affirmed.

 

 

By Suzanne Reynolds* and Ralph Peeples**

Introduction

For a number of years now, the law has encouraged judges in domestic violence court to address child custody when a parent who receives a protective order asserts that custody is in issue between the parties.  Despite our intuition that judges should address custody in these circumstances, they have been reluctant to do so.  The legal system initially organized civil domestic violence courts to enter protective orders to direct the batterer either to stop the violence or face the consequences of disobeying the court’s order.  But as it turns out, most of the people asking the court to protect them from domestic violence are the parents of minor children,[1] and, in the majority of those actions, the parent seeking the protective order maintains that, in addition to domestic violence, the custody of a minor is indeed in issue.[2]

Any visitor to the civil domestic violence courts of this country knows one of the reasons that judges have been reluctant to address custody: the numbers.  Since the 1980s, every state has recognized a civil cause of action for domestic violence,[3] the primary function of which is to issue protective orders in appropriate cases.[4]  In the intervening years, the civil domestic violence court has become the legal world’s emergency room with a volume that threatens to overwhelm the system.[5]  To deal with crowded dockets, court personnel try to move the cases quickly, assessing the evidence that the petitioner offers to justify the court’s entering a protective order.  Custody issues, on the other hand, are time consuming and difficult, even when lawyers representing both parties marshal the evidence for the court to weigh.

Not only are the dockets crowded in domestic violence court, but lawyers are conspicuously absent.  While an increasing number of people represent themselves pro se in family matters in general,[6] pro se representation is especially common in civil domestic violence actions.[7]  In fact, the domestic violence court is among the most—if not the most—pro se friendly of the nation’s civil courts.  By statute in many states, court personnel must assist the plaintiff,[8] and prepared forms from administrative offices of state courts attempt to make it possible for persons seeking relief to navigate the system without a lawyer.  For these reasons, the domestic violence courts are filled with families unrepresented by lawyers.

The pro se friendly nature of the domestic violence court, however, gives rise to one of the most serious reasons why judges hesitate to address custody in an action for a civil protective order.  Judges suspect that the petitioner has fabricated the domestic violence claim in order to access the pro se friendly court and have the judge address the real issue—custody.[9]  The parties may believe, and rightly so, that their actions will be heard more quickly—and less expensively—in domestic violence court.  Further, judges suspect that a plaintiff raising custody as an issue in domestic violence court later plans to file in family court and hopes that, if a judge has found that the defendant has committed an act of domestic violence, the finding will give the plaintiff an advantage in the later family court action.[10]  True or not, these suspicions have made judges reluctant to address the custody issue in domestic violence court.

Because of crowded dockets in domestic violence court, these suspicions, and perhaps other reasons, judges have avoided addressing custody in domestic violence court.  While they have always had the statutory authority to deal with custody,[11] they simply have not exercised that authority.  After a decade into our country’s experience with civil domestic violence actions, empirical studies began reporting how often judges ignored plaintiffs’ requests for custody.[12]  Later studies report similar findings.[13]  A 2002 study in North Carolina, for example, found that domestic violence courts granted custody requests less often than other requests in the action for a protective order.[14]

On the other hand, advocates against domestic violence have always insisted that, for families with minor children, a domestic violence order that fails to address custody is inadequate—or even worse.  If the victim gets a protective order directing the batterer to stay away from the victim, the order will separate the victim and batterer.  There is overwhelming evidence that separation is a particularly dangerous time for the victim[15] and for the victim’s child.  If the protective order is silent on custody, that silence gives the batterer an excuse to contact the victim to make arrangements to see the child.  This contact between batterer and victim after separation is especially dangerous.[16]

For decades, across the country, advocates against domestic violence lobbied for legislation to encourage judges in domestic violence courts to deal with custody.[17]  The Violence Against Women Act[18] gave funds to healthcare providers, law enforcement agencies, prosecutors, courts, and community advocacy services to study how their states were handling domestic violence, especially in their civil courts.[19]  Eventually these studies led legislative and judicial committees to recommend amendments specifically targeting the need for domestic violence judges to address child custody.[20]  No state went so far as to require these judges to address custody, however, out of concern that the requirement would delay decisions about protective orders in cases where delay could be deadly.[21]  More typically, in states amending their domestic violence statutes, the amendments merely exhorted judges to address custody in domestic violence court if custody was in issue.[22]  The statutes provided that judges “should” or “may” address custody in domestic violence court, stopping short of telling judges that they “must.”[23]  At least ten states, including North Carolina, went further with enhanced amendments that not only exhorted the judge to address custody but also gave the judge discretion to appoint a representative—a “custody guardian ad litem” (“GAL”)—for the child in a civil protective order case.[24]  The reformers believed that with the help of these GALs to gather facts, judges might have enough facts to address the custody issue without delaying an appropriate protective order.[25]

These statutes encouraging judges to address custody in domestic violence court are now only a few years old, and there has been little analysis of what impact, if any, the statutes have had.  This Article offers a first look at the handling of the custody issue in a domestic violence court.  Part I describes the approaches to treating high-conflict custody cases over the last sixty years, concluding with the reorienting of the treatment of domestic violence in child custody disputes.  Part II describes the methodology and results of our study, particularly the data and analysis supporting the conclusions that indicate that judges’ suspicions about the motives of the plaintiffs appear to be wrong.  Part III offers observations about the results.  Lastly, the Conclusion offers suggestions for refining our handling of custody disputes in domestic violence courts.

I.  Child Custody and Domestic Violence

High-conflict child custody cases have confounded the legal system.  In this country, for the last sixty years, we have experimented with one fix after another, looking for an approach that would serve the best interests of the children so unfortunate to be at the center of these high-conflict cases.  Fortunately, only a relatively few number of dissolving families find themselves in what could be called high-conflict custody disputes.[26]  Still, for the hundreds of thousands who do, the legal system seems to have failed them.[27]

The systemic failure persists despite concerted efforts to fix it.  Reformers from different fields—law, sociology, psychology, and others—have advocated for one reform after another.  In the 1960s, reformers focused on mediation, hoping that mediators could enable parents in dissolving families to agree on a parenting plan.[28]  Convinced that mediation had real promise, a few states enacted mandatory mediation statutes.[29]  On the other hand, mandatory mediation drew vociferous, sometimes eloquent, criticism.[30]  Feminist scholars warned that mandatory mediation threatened to take custody away from dominated caregivers—often mothers—and to award it instead to their dominating partners—often fathers—despite the best interests of the child.[31]  While mediation continues to have strong supporters,[32] the trend towards mandatory mediation for child custody disputes appears to have dissipated.

In the 1970s and 1980s, reformers focused on joint physical custody, with a number of factors paving the way for the passage of statutes that promoted it.  In the first place, the system felt the pressure of rising divorce rates[33] and the increasing numbers of children affected by divorce.[34]  Also around this time, several important longitudinal studies concluded that children suffered long-lasting harm from divorce[35]—conclusions that stimulated interest in changing the handling of custody cases.  In addition, as more women worked outside the home, with some change in traditional parenting,[36] fathers who parented more wanted more custodial time at divorce.[37]  Finally, courts were continuing to struggle with the “best interests of the child” standard, the indeterminate standard that had replaced the tender years presumption.[38]  The tender years presumption—the presumption that the court should award custody of a young child to the mother[39]—raised equal protection concerns but, at least, led to predictable outcomes.  In comparison, the indeterminate “best interests of the child” standard provided little guidance on how to make custody decisions.[40]  Presumptions for joint physical custody, at least, offered something determinant.[41]

Equally as important, the “discourse” about custody was changing.[42]  Commentators spoke of custody less as a legal issue and more as an emotional crisis, calling for involvement of mental health professionals rather than lawyers.[43]  Parents proved their “fitness” by agreeing to a custody arrangement.[44]  Otherwise, the parent was uncooperative and obstructionist, even pathological.[45]  The combination of these forces resulted in states promoting joint physical custody.  In some states, statutes directed the court to presume an award of joint physical custody with the burden on the objecting parent to rebut the presumption.[46]  Other states adopted “friendly parent provisions” that instructed the court to consider how willing a parent was to promote contact with the other parent.[47]  As used in some states, these friendly parent provisions applied pressure; if a parent thought that opposing joint physical custody might appear “unfriendly,” the parent would agree to joint physical custody to avoid a judge awarding custody to the “friendlier” parent.[48]

To some degree, the bandwagon for joint physical custody has slowed down.  Later longitudinal studies reported more nuanced findings about the effect of divorce on children.  While studies in the late 1970s and early 1980s reported the devastating effects of divorce,[49] these later studies reported the devastating effects ofconflict.[50]  These later studies reported that children fared better after divorce for marriages characterized as high conflict.[51]  The research isolated most of the more serious long-term effects to those marriages that had suffered only low to moderate conflict.[52]  By emphasizing the central role of conflict, the later research supported those commentators opposed to presumptions of joint physical custody.[53]  These commentators argued that if joint physical custody led to more conflict, then parents should not agree to it.[54]  And if the parties reached joint physical custody as a compromise in cases of high conflict, then children would suffer.[55]  As critics began to point out, “conflict localized around the time of litigation and divorce is less harmful than conflict, which remains an intrinsic and unresolved part of the parents’ relationship and continues after their divorce.”[56]

The approximation rule surfaced as a rival for presumptions of joint physical custody.  Proposed by Elizabeth Scott, this rule recommends sharing physical custodyafter separation in proportion to the time that each parent spent performing caretaking functions with the child before separation.[57]  Related both to primary caregiving and shared parenting, the rule recognizes that parents in modern households often share caregiving responsibilities.[58]  The approximation rule reflects the realities of dual career families by recognizing shared custody, but only in proportion to the preseparation experience of the parents and child, and avoids labeling one of the parents as “the primary caregiver.”[59]  The American Law Institute adopted the rule,[60] and it has received significant support.[61]  Because some studies had suggested that parties in joint physical custody arrangements often drifted into the custody patterns before separation,[62] the approximation rule may simply reflect the likely long-term outcome.

While the debate about joint physical custody continues,[63] other issues have taken center stage.  More recently, reformers have advocated for reform that acknowledges the presence of domestic violence in high-conflict custody cases.[64]  By some estimates, domestic violence occurs in as many as seventy percent of the high-conflict custody cases.[65]  In light of this shocking statistic, in the last two decades, child advocates from different communities have collaborated to highlight the problems of children and domestic violence.[66]

The law of child custody only recently has acknowledged the harm that children suffer from living in households with domestic violence.  At one point in our legal history, judges hesitated to consider domestic violence in deciding child custody disputes as long as the batterer did not physically assault the child.[67]  In fact, during the height of the movement for joint physical custody, judges appeared suspicious when mothers alleged domestic violence.[68]  Parents were supposed to cooperate with each other and promote the child’s relationship with the other parent.  “Friendly parent” statutes promised more parenting time to parents willing to cooperate and threatened less parenting time to parents who did not.  With more and more states urging parents to cooperate, mothers who alleged domestic violence appeared more and more uncooperative.

Advocates against domestic violence began to track what was happening in custody litigation where a party, usually the mother, claimed to be the victim of domestic violence.  From family court records, the data revealed that if the mother raised the issue of domestic violence, it lowered her chance of having custody of her children.[69]  Studies of trial and appellate cases across the country documented judges’ tendencies to find against mothers who complained of domestic violence in custody cases.[70]  Surveys indicated that judges thought that partner violence was irrelevant to custody[71] or that statutory and common law rules favoring joint physical custody required them to give batterers rights of supervised visitation without analyzing the danger for the child and victim/parent.[72]

The fact that victims were losing custody of their children to batterers came as no surprise to some advocates against domestic violence.  Some commentators pointed to the characteristics of the batterer, especially the batterer’s need to control, to explain these incongruous results in custody cases.  An award of custody to the batterer gives the batterer a way to extend control over the victim,[73] which explains why batterers contest custody twice as often as nonbatterers.[74]  This finding persists even though the batterer was not previously involved in caregiving for the child.[75]  Moreover, batterers are “skillfully dishonest,” giving them advantages in credibility contests with their victims.[76]  The anger and emotions of victims, on the other hand, make them less effective communicators, especially in the courtroom.[77]  Likewise, the victim is often depressed, which may enable the batterer to convince the judge of his or her superior skills as a parent.[78]  Economics usually favor the batterer as well.  Because the batterer frequently controls the parties’ finances, the batterer is likely to appear more economically stable than the victim.[79]  Taken together, these and other factors can result in a larger proportion of batterers having custody than nonbatterers.[80]

In the meantime, child psychologists had begun to document the harmful effect of domestic violence on children.  Regardless of whether batterers physically battered their children, the children suffered.  Children who witness battering, like children who are battered, learn violent behavior and repeat it.[81]  Studies estimate that children witness about half of the incidents of domestic violence.[82]  These children are more aggressive towards other children, more oppositional, more likely to be cruel to animals, and more likely to use drugs and alcohol.[83]  These children suffer severe psychological injuries as a result of witnessing domestic violence,[84]with psychological symptoms and syndromes that may extend throughout childhood and beyond.[85]  Children in families with violence have difficulty in school and are at a higher risk of being suspended or expelled.[86]  The symptoms resemble posttraumatic stress disorder,[87] and some children even experience irreversible changes in their brain structures.[88]

We know now, too, that even if batterers have physically injured only adult intimate partners, they are statistically likely to eventually inflict physical injuries on their children.[89]  Many batterers inadvertently injure their children in the reckless violence aimed at the intimate partner.[90]

Because of the impact of domestic violence on children and the results in custody disputes, child advocates and advocates against domestic violence tried to increase judges’ awareness of the relationship between domestic violence and custody.  This law coalition focused first on judges in family courts.  The National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges (“NCJFCJ”) published its Model Code on Domestic and Family Violence in 1994, urging states to enact statutes that established a rebuttable presumption against sole or joint custody to violent parents.[91]  Various coalitions lobbied state legislatures for statutes establishing presumptions against awards of custody to batterers or for statutes requiring judges to at least make special findings on the evidence of domestic violence.[92]  Today, every state requires courts to consider evidence of domestic violence when deciding child custody, and statutes in twenty-four states recognize a presumption that awarding custody to the batterer is not in the best interests of the child.[93]

While coalitions succeeded in passing this legislation to reform the handling of custody in family courts, the impact has disappointed some who have followed the results.[94]  Anecdotally, various groups shared their concerns that the statutory efforts had little effect, and later empirical studies from Alaska, Arizona, Massachusetts, Pennsylvania, and California tend to support that conclusion.[95]

Frustrated with the lack of progress in the handling of children and domestic violence, the NCJFCJ and the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (“AFCC”) convened a Wingspread Conference in 2007 on high-conflict custody cases, many of which, the organizers knew, involved domestic violence.[96]  The attendees at the NCJFCJ and AFCC Wingspread Conference identified five central sets of issues facing those working at the intersection of domestic violence and court systems: differentiation among families experiencing domestic violence; screening and triage; participation by families in various processes and services; appropriate outcomes for children; and family court roles and resources.[97]  The report emphasized the need for continued multidisciplinary collaboration that integrates all five of these issues in order to better serve families affected by domestic violence.[98]  At the conclusion of the conference, the organizers urged courts to identify and explore conceptual and practical tensions that had hampered effective work with families in which domestic violence had been identified.[99]

As these various courts began to share their findings, the reformers concluded that many families experiencing violence and custody issues never made it to family court; they were in domestic violence court instead.[100]  The next round of legislative reforms, therefore, focused on domestic violence courts, culminating in the legislation described above.[101]  This legislation encouraged judges in civil domestic violence court to address the custody issue with a temporary order of custody when the plaintiff was entitled to a protective order and told the court that the custody of a minor child was also in issue.[102]  At the same time, a number of states passed statutes and changed local rules in order to facilitate the entry of temporary custody orders, most specifically by making custody GALs available to the court to gather information for the judge.[103]  These efforts reflected the concern that the consequences of not addressing custody in domestic violence orders are far more serious than have been documented to date.

II.  The Study

A.     The Parameters of the Study

While researchers have gathered data about the handling of domestic violence in cases in family court,[104] no one has studied court records of whether, and if so, how, judges handle requests for custody in domestic violence court.  For many reasons, the Twenty-First Judicial District of North Carolina provided a natural testing ground.

A number of factors suggested that if the statutory reforms would have an impact, the domestic courts of the Twenty-First Judicial District of North Carolina would reflect it.  First of all, of the legislation addressing custody in domestic violence court, North Carolina passed one of the more comprehensive statutes.  In 2004, the General Assembly amended Chapter 50B, the chapter dealing with the civil action for a domestic violence protective order (“DVPO”), giving guidance to judges on how to handle custody issues.[105]  The amendments provide that in ex parte orders, the judge has the authority to enter a temporary order for custody if he or she finds that the child is “exposed to a substantial risk of physical or emotional injury or sexual abuse.”[106]  For orders after notice and service of process, the statute provides that, if the judge finds that an act of domestic violence has occurred and orders a protective order, upon the request of either party, the judge “shall consider and may award temporary custody,” and the statute gives a long list of things for the judge to consider.[107]  The statute also specifically recognizes the role of a GAL or attorney for the minor child.[108]  In addition, the amendments make clear that custody orders in domestic violence court are temporary orders.[109]  As a temporary order, if a party later seeks a different custody order, the court will not apply the higher burden of proof that the law imposes to modify a permanent order of custody.[110]

While the statute made all of the North Carolina courts a good testing ground for how judges in domestic violence court were responding to the statutory changes, several other factors singled out the Twenty-First Judicial District, comprised of Forsyth County, from all the districts in the state.  National studies had identified coordinated services in its litany of best practices.[111]  In 2005, Forsyth County received a grant from the United States Department of Justice (“DOJ”) to provide integrated services to victims of domestic violence.[112]  These services encourage victims to feel “Safe on Seven” because representatives from various agencies have offices on the seventh floor of the Forsyth County courthouse in Winston-Salem, North Carolina.[113]  Safe on Seven, also known as the Forsyth County Domestic Violence Center, offers victims a “one-stop shop” with representatives from the offices of Family Services, the Clerk of Superior Court, the Sheriff’s Department, the District Attorney’s Office, Legal Aid of North Carolina, and others.[114]

Even before the DOJ grant, Forsyth County had responded to other best practices and created a specialized domestic violence court.  In 1998, the chief district court judge, responding to recommendations for best practices issuing from national studies,[115] organized the domestic violence court with separate criminal and civil dockets heard on the same day in two different courtrooms.[116]  With this organization, Chief Judge William Reingold hoped to promote better coordination of cases, more consistency between cases involving the same parties, more consistent procedures, and an increase in the accountability of batterers.[117]

Finally, we drew our data from Forsyth County because unique resources in that county made judges more likely to utilize the custody GAL, authorized in the 2004 legislation,[118] than judges in any other county in the state.  A nonprofit organization established in 2005, the Children’s Law Center of Central North Carolina (“CLC”), provided volunteers to serve as custody GALs.[119]  Not long after the North Carolina legislature amended the domestic violence statute to authorize judges to appoint custody GALs in domestic violence proceedings, the CLC offered its services to judges in Forsyth County to serve as these custody GALs and to train other volunteers from the community, many of whom were local lawyers or law students at Wake Forest University School of Law.[120]  The GALs at CLC and the guardians they trained received specific instruction on domestic violence as well as on other legal, social, and medical issues related to custody in families with domestic violence.[121]  There were no other programs in North Carolina and few in the country doing this work.[122]

For all these reasons, we concluded that the Twenty-First Judicial District would be among the more receptive of courts to the statutory efforts to encourage judges to address custody in domestic violence court.  Also, characteristics of Forsyth County made the Twenty-First Judicial District a good natural experiment.  In many ways, Forsyth County is typical of North Carolina as a whole.  It is both urban and rural.  The county’s estimated 2005 population was 325,967, representing a 6.5% increase from the 2000 census population of 306,067.[123]  The county seat of Forsyth County, Winston-Salem, with a 2000 population of 185,776, ranks as one of the five largest cities in the state.[124]  The 2003 median household income for Forsyth County was $41,335, slightly higher than the statewide median of $39,438.[125]  The average number of persons per household was 2.39,[126] somewhat less than the statewide average of 2.49.[127]  According to the 2000 census, whites accounted for 68.5% of the county’s population, and blacks accounted for 25.6% of the county’s population.[128]  The corresponding percentages for the state as a whole were 72.1% and 21.6%, respectively.[129]  As of 2000, the percentage of persons aged twenty-five or older in Forsyth County who were high school graduates was 82%,[130] compared to a statewide percentage of 78.1%.[131]

Because of these factors, we designed our study to collect data from the Twenty-First Judicial District of North Carolina.  We captured an entire population of families in domestic violence court for which custody was in issue, and we followed that population for a number of years after they put both custody and violence before the domestic violence court.  We chose 2006 because that year gave time for the 2004 amendments encouraging child custody orders in domestic violence actions to take effect.  Also, by 2006, Safe on Seven was fully implemented.

We defined the population as everyone in the Twenty-First Judicial District who asked for a civil DVPO in 2006 and put the issue of custody before the court.  From the records of Safe on Seven, we compiled a list of all the petitions for a civil domestic violence order in 2006—1014 filings for a “50B,” the shorthand for a civil domestic violence order under Chapter 50B of the North Carolina General Statutes.

After we compiled the list of all 50B filings in 2006, we developed a data collection form to collect all relevant information from these files.  First, we narrowed the 1014 cases to 339 cases in which custody was “in issue.”  We concluded that custody was “in issue” if, on the complaint for a 50B, the petitioner checked one of the two boxes that indicated that the petitioner was asking for temporary child custody.[132]  We also concluded that, even if the petitioner did not check either box indicating a request for custody, custody was “in issue” if a judge ordered temporary custody to either party.[133]

After we compiled this list of 339 cases in which custody was in issue in a civil action for a DVPO, we collected all the data that the court records contained.  Students gathered all the available information about the parties, the child, the allegations, the findings, and the conclusions reflected in the file.  As explained above, statutes in many states direct the appropriate agencies to make forms available for petitioners seeking a civil domestic violence order.[134]  In North Carolina, the Administrative Office of the Courts (“AOC”) developed forms for the Complaint and Motion for Domestic Violence Protective Order,[135] the Affidavit as to Status of Minor Child,[136] the Ex Parte Domestic Violence Order of Protection,[137] and the Domestic Violence Order of Protection, or Consent Order, and Temporary Child Custody Addendum.[138]  The information recorded on these forms provides the bulk of the data that this study describes and analyzes.

We also wanted to follow the members of this population for a number of years after they requested a DVPO and also placed the custody of a minor child before the court.  To do this, we took the names of the plaintiffs and the defendants in our 339 cases from the 2006 civil domestic actions in which custody was in issue.  With access provided by the North Carolina AOC, we collected data on a cohort of people who obtained an ex parte order and two cohorts of people who obtained a protective order after notice and service of process.  We tracked the appearance of these people in any civil or criminal record anywhere in North Carolina from the time of their court appearance in the 2006 civil domestic action through December 2011.

B.     Findings: The Parties, the Children, and Their Representation

Contrary to conventional wisdom, not everyone seeking a protective order who also has a minor child asks the court to address custody.  In North Carolina, studies across the state reveal that in about 57% of actions for a civil protective order, the plaintiff and defendant have a child in common.[139]  Applying this percentage to the year of our population, which generated 1014 filings for a domestic violence order, one would expect that in approximately 578 of these cases (1014 x 57%), the parties had a child in common.  In our data, however, only in 339 cases did the parties indicate that custody was in issue.  In other words, using 578 as an approximation of the cases in which the parties had a child in common, we found that the parties put custody in issue in 58.7% of the cases, and in 239 of the cases (41.3%), the parties did not.  These numbers suggest that a significant percentage of people who ask the court for a protective order do not put the custody of the minor child who lives with them before the court.

1.     Plaintiff and Defendant Demographics

The demographics of the plaintiffs and defendants in civil domestic cases in which custody is in issue generally reflect the demographics of domestic violence litigation.  In 93% of the cases, the records made it possible to determine the age of the plaintiff.  The average age of the plaintiff population was 30.4 years old, with a median of 29 years old and a mode of 26 years old.  The results were similar for the defendant population: the average age of the defendant population was 31.9 years old, with a median of 30 years old and a mode of 24 years old.

In 334 of the 339 cases, the data indicated the gender of the plaintiff.  By far, most of the plaintiffs were female: 296 cases (89%).  In 338 of the 339 cases, the data indicated the gender of the defendant.  Again, most defendants were male: 296 cases (88%).[140]

On racial characteristics, the records provided information only for defendants and revealed that African-Americans were overrepresented compared to their numbers in the general population.  In the 331 cases in which the records identified the race of the defendant, 157 of them were Caucasian (47.4%).  African-Americans accounted for 136 defendants (41.1%).  Latinos represented 34 of the defendants (10.3%).  Asians and Indians each had 2 defendants among the population (less than 1%).  Table 1 depicts a cross-tabulation for defendants’ race by gender.

Table 1: Domestic Violence Defendants by Race and Gender*

White

African-American

Latino

Asian

Indian

Total

Female

30 (9.1%)

10 (3%)

2 (.6%)

0

0

12.7%

Male

127 (38.5%)

125 (37.9%)

32 (9.7%)

2 (0.6%)

2 (0.6%)

87.3%

Total

157 (47.6%)

135 (40.9%)

34 (10.3%)

2 (0.6%)

2 (0.6%)

100%

*Note: The percentages in this table do not necessarily match those reported above due to differences in the denominators; missing data affect the differing base calculations and subsequent percent distributions.

2.     The Children

The disputes over custody and domestic violence involved more families with one child than any other number of children, most of whom were young.  In 336 of the cases, the plaintiff had identified the number of children involved in the proceeding.  In 191 of them, the complaint involved only one minor child (56.8%).  In 98 of the cases, the complaint identified two children (29.2%), and in 41 of the cases, the complaint identified three children (12.2%).  Only 6 of the cases involved more than three children (1.8%).

The records provided the ages of the children in 333 cases.  For the many complaints involving only one child, the average age of the child was six years old, with a median of four and a half years old and a mode of an infant one month old or less.  For the complaints involving a second child, the average age of the child was also six years old, with a median of a little over five years old and a mode of one month old or less.  For the few cases involving a third child, the average age of the child was five years old, with a median of four years old and a mode of nine months.  These high incidences of complaints for a protective order in families with an infant suggest a significant increase of conflict associated with the birth of a child.  The majority of the complaints, however, involved parents in their early thirties with one or two young children allegedly exposed to violence.

3.     Their Representation

As in civil domestic violence proceedings across the country, lawyers were largely absent from these proceedings.  Among the ex parte orders, the plaintiff had an attorney in only 31 of the 333 cases (9%) where an order was entered, either granting or denying the order.  In cases in which a protective order was entered after notice and service of process, commonly called a “ten-day order” in North Carolina,[141] the plaintiff had an attorney in only 74 of the 301 cases (25%), either granting or denying the order.  An attorney represented the defendant at the hearing for a ten-day order in slightly fewer of the cases—64 of the 301 cases (21%).  Tables 2 and 3 depict a cross-tabulation for representation at the hearing for a ten-day order by gender.

Table 2: Plaintiffs in Ten-Day Order Hearings by Representation and Gender*

Plaintiff represented

Plaintiff  not represented

Totals/Percentages

Female

64 (21.5%)

196 (65.8%)

260 (87.3%)

Male

9 (3%)

29 (9.7%)

38 (12.7%)

Total

73 (24.5%)

225 (75.5%)

298 (100%)

*Note: The percentages in this table do not necessarily match those reported above due to differences in the denominators; missing data affect the differing base calculations and subsequent percent distributions.

Table 3: Defendants in Ten-Day Order Hearings by Representation and Gender*

Defendant represented

Defendant not represented

Totals/Percentages

Female

8 (2.7%)

31 (10.3%)

39 (13%)

Male

56 (18.7%)

205 (68.3%)

261 (87%)

Total

64 (21.4%)

236 (78.6%)

300 (100%)

*Note: The percentages in this table do not necessarily match those reported above due to differences in the denominators: missing data affect the differing base calculations and subsequent percent distributions.

As noted above, one of the reasons why Forsyth County was a good testing ground for the effect of amendments encouraging the handling of custody in domestic violence court was the presence of the CLC, a nonprofit organization providing custody GALs.[142]  According to Chief Judge Reingold of the Twenty-First Judicial District, judges in domestic violence court randomly appoint a custody GAL as volunteers trained by the CLC are available.[143]  Of the 339 cases of our population, the CLC appeared in twelve of the cases.

C.     When the Judge Addressed Custody

1.     How Often

The first goal of the study was to determine in how many civil protective orders the judge also addressed custody.  Before a judge has the authority to address custody in domestic violence court, the plaintiff must be entitled to the relief requested—the protective order.  There is little national or state information about the success rate of ex parte protective orders, but we do know the success rate locally.  According to Allison Cranford, Director of Safe on Seven, in Forsyth County, plaintiffs receive ex parte orders in about 79% of the cases.[144]  Based on our study, the percentage of judges entering the ex parte order when the custody of a minor is also in issue is slightly higher.  In our study involving plaintiffs who sought not only a protective order but also put the issue of custody before the court, plaintiffs received the protective order in 274 of the 339 cases (81%) in which custody was in issue.

We do have state information about the success rate for protective orders entered after notice and service of process, called ten-day orders in North Carolina.  Statewide, judges enter ten-day orders in only 25% of the cases.[145]  There was a much higher success rate in the Twenty-First Judicial District.  In our study, of the 339 cases where custody was in issue, there was a ten-day order, either granting or denying the protective order, in 301 cases.  Of these 301 cases, the judge granted a ten-day order in 133 of them (44%).

Our study presented the judges in domestic violence court with 274 ex parte orders and 133 ten-day orders in which the judge had the authority to address custody.  While Chapter 50B encourages the judge who has entered a protective order to also address custody, the statute sets additional, stringent findings for ex parte orders that are not required for ten-day orders.  For ex parte orders, the judge must find that the plaintiff is entitled to the protective order and that “the child is exposed to a substantial risk of physical or emotional injury or sexual abuse.”[146]  On the other hand, the judge has the authority to enter a custody order addressing custody in a ten-day order simply upon a finding that an act of domestic violence has occurred and that the plaintiff is entitled to the order.[147]

Despite the higher standards for ex parte orders, orders in which the judge not only granted the protective order but also addressed custody[148] were much more common in ex parte orders than they were in ten-day orders.  Of the 274 cases in which a judge entered the ex parte order, the judge addressed the custody issue in 172 of the cases (62.8%).  On the other hand, of the 133 cases in which the judge granted the ten-day order, the judge addressed the custody issue in 46 of them (35%).  Table 4 reflects these numbers.

Table 4: Orders Addressing Custody in Ex Parte and Ten-Day Orders

Type of order

Was order entered?

Did order also address custody?

Entry of order

Percentage

Order also addressing custody

Percentage

Ex parte orders

274/333

82%

172/274

63%

Ten-day orders

133/301

44%

46/133

35%

These numbers reflect the historical reluctance to address custody.  Despite the higher standard for awarding custody in ex parte orders, judges were more willing to award temporary custody in an ex parte order that would expire after a short period of time—in North Carolina, after the later of ten days from issuance or seven days after service of process.[149]  On the other hand, despite the lower standard for awarding custody in ten-day orders, judges were less willing to address custody in those orders, which could last as long as a year.[150]

2.     Common Features

After we determined the number of cases in which the judge not only granted the protective order but also awarded custody, we set about trying to see what, if any, features were common to the orders addressing custody.

a.  When the Parties Were Represented

While the parties seldom had attorneys, the presence of an attorney was extremely important.  Among the 274 cases in which the judge granted an ex parte order, the plaintiff had an attorney in only 22 of them (8%).  But every time the plaintiff had a lawyer and the judge granted the ex parte order, the judge also addressed custody in a way favorable to the plaintiff.  In other words, in 100% of the cases in which the plaintiff was represented by a lawyer, if the judge granted the protective order, he or she also addressed the custody issue.  Judges cite the difficulty of assessing custody-related facts in an ex parte hearing; it is not surprising then that when a lawyer is present to marshal those facts for the judge, the judge is much more likely to respond with an order addressing custody.  But in our study, in another 150 cases in which the plaintiff had no lawyer, the judge who entered the ex parte order also addressed custody in a way favorable to the plaintiff.

Table 5: Ex Parte Addressing Custody, by Plaintiff Representation

Plaintiff representation

Did the ex parte order also address custody?

Addressed custody

Did not address custody

Totals/ Percentages

Represented

22 (8%)

0 (0%)

22 (8%)

Not represented

150 (55%)

102 (37%)

252 (92%)

Total

172 (63%)

102 (37%)

274 (100%)

For the ten-day orders, where the plaintiff and defendant might be represented, it is interesting to correlate custody for the plaintiff by plaintiff and defendant representation.  Among the 133 cases in which the judge granted the ten-day order, in 46 of them (35%) the judge also addressed custody in a way favorable to the plaintiff, either by awarding the plaintiff temporary custody or by limiting the defendant’s access to the child.  Table 6 breaks down those 46 cases by plaintiff and defendant representation, with the percentage equaling the number of orders favorably addressing custody for the plaintiff.

Table 6: Ten-Day Order with Custody by Representation

Plaintiff represented / Defendant represented

15% (7/46)

Plaintiff represented /  Defendant not represented

39% (18/46)

Plaintiff  not represented /  Defendant not represented

37% (17/46)

Plaintiff  not represented /  Defendant represented

9% (4/46)

A comparison of Tables 5 and 6 reveals some interesting differences.  Among the ex parte orders described in Table 5, the order also addressed custody 63% of the time overall, 100% of the time when the plaintiff had a lawyer.  In ten-day orders, the judge also addressed custody 35% of the time.  In Table 6, that 35% is broken down by plaintiff and defendant representation.  The plaintiff had a lawyer in 54% of the cases in which the judge addressed custody.  On the other hand, the absence of a lawyer for the defendant characterizes 76% of the cases in which the judge addressed custody.  In other words, at the ten-day hearing, the absence of a lawyer for the defendant had a higher correlation with an order addressing custody than the presence of a lawyer for the plaintiff.

b.  Pending Proceedings

The 172 ex parte orders and the 46 ten-day orders that also addressed custody have a number of features in common.  First, there was some correlation between the allegation of a pending proceeding and the granting of an order, especially an order addressing custody.  In the 274 cases where the ex parte order was granted, the plaintiff had indicated under Box 3 of the complaint[151] that there was some kind of proceeding pending between the parties in 42% of the cases.  The judge entered an order that also addressed custody in 44% of the cases when the plaintiff indicated that there was a prior pending proceeding between the parties.  The effect was more pronounced depending on the kind of proceeding that the plaintiff said was pending.  If the plaintiff identified multiple actions pending—especially if the pending action included an assault or an assault on a female—the ex parte order also addressed custody 87% of the time.

Likewise, for the ten-day orders, there was some correlation between the allegation of a pending proceeding and the granting of the ten-day order.  In the 133 cases where the ten-day order was granted, the plaintiff had indicated under Box 3 of the complaint[152] that there was some kind of proceeding pending between the parties in 46% of the cases.  The judge entered an order that also addressed custody in 48% of the cases when the plaintiff indicated that there was a prior pending proceeding between the parties.  The effect was more pronounced depending on the kind of proceeding that the plaintiff said was pending.  If the plaintiff identified multiple actions pending—especially if the action included an assault or an assault on a female—the ten-day order also addressed custody 100% of the time.  The allegation of criminal conduct either at the ex parte or ten-day hearing appears to allay the judges’ suspicions that the plaintiff was in court about custody and not about violence.[153]

c.  Where Did the Plaintiff Put the Facts?

Among the cases granting the ex parte or ten-day protective order, the allegations in the cases in which the judge also addressed custody followed a similar pattern.  As the complaint in Appendix I reveals, plaintiffs check Box 4 on the first page of the complaint if they allege that the defendant caused or attempted to cause the plaintiff bodily injury, placed the plaintiff or a member of the plaintiff’s family or household in fear of injury or harassment, or committed a sexual offense against the plaintiff.[154]  The form provides space under the allegation for specific dates and facts.[155]  Because the plaintiff must prove an act of domestic violence in order to receive a protective order,[156] not surprisingly, plaintiffs almost always check Box 4.

Plaintiffs check Box 5 on the first page of the complaint if they allege that the defendant caused or attempted to cause bodily injury to the children, placed the children in fear of imminent serious bodily injury or harassment, or committed a sexual offense against the children.[157]  The form provides space under the allegation for specific dates and facts.[158]  Plaintiffs check Box 8 on the second page of the complaint, on the other hand, if they allege not that the defendant had actually attempted or caused the injuries to which Box 5 referred but if the minor children were exposed to a substantial risk that they would occur, with space underneath for the plaintiff to give specific details.[159]  In other words, Box 5 alleged that the defendant attempted or caused the conduct which the child merely faced a substantial risk of in Box 8.  One would think, then, that the conduct in Box 5 was more serious than the conduct in Box 8.  Nevertheless, the judge was much more likely to enter an order addressing custody if the plaintiff checked Box 8 than if the plaintiff checked Box 5.

When the plaintiff checked Box 5, the judge addressed custody in 64% of the successful ex parte orders, but when the plaintiff checked Box 8, the judge addressed custody in 83% of the successful ex parte orders.  For ex parte orders, a statutory requirement helps explain the difference: the statute regulating ex parte orders limits the judge’s authority to award temporary custody to the plaintiff to cases in which the judge “finds that the child is exposed to a substantial risk of bodily injury or sexual abuse.”[160]  Box 8 most closely corresponds to the statutory language.  Even when the plaintiff alleged multiple kinds of acts under Box 5, including physical violence against the child, the judge did not address custody in 36% of the successful ex parte orders.  But when the plaintiff checked Box 8 and alleged the same kind of conduct, judges were much more likely to address custody.  In fact, the judge declined to address custody in successful ex parte orders only 17% of the time when the plaintiff checked Box 8.

The statutory requirement governing ex parte awards of custody does not apply to ten-day orders.  A judge need not find that “the child is exposed to a substantial risk of physical or emotional injury or sexual abuse” to address custody in a ten-day order.  Nevertheless, the phenomenon relating an order addressing custody to a check in Box 8 applied to ten-day orders as well.  When the plaintiff checked Box 5, the judge addressed custody in 63% of the successful ten-day orders but addressed custody in 85% of the successful ten-day orders when the plaintiff checked Box 8.  Again, even though the plaintiffs described the same kind of conduct in the spaces under Boxes 5 and 8, the judge was more likely to address custody if the allegations appeared under Box 8.  In the expedited hearings that necessarily take place in domestic violence court, it appears that the judge may sometimes rely on form over substance for the confidence to address the custody issue.

d.  Findings Associated with Orders Addressing Custody

Apart from the use of Box 8 to allege the need for a protective order, there was little in the allegations to distinguish the orders in which the judge also addressed custody from the orders only granting the protective order.  We turned to the judges’ findings for distinctions.  There was one feature that all the orders addressing custody shared: they all had “additional findings.”  Both the form for ex parte orders and the form for ten-day orders have pages for additional findings.[161]  In fact, if the ten-day order addresses custody, there is a special form—the “Temporary Child Custody Addendum”—for yet two more pages of additional findings.[162]  On all of these forms, preprinted findings follow boxes that the judge may check to indicate that the judge has found what appears after the boxes—findings that track the statutory requirements for a protective order.  In all but one of the ex parte orders addressing custody, there were boxes checked for additional findings; in all of the ten-day orders addressing custody, the judges had checked at least some of the boxes indicating that the judge had found the facts indicated after the checked boxes.

But these checked boxes do little to explain why some orders addressed custody and others did not.  In the 172 ex parte orders addressing custody, the only boxes that were checked a majority of the time indicated that the defendant had placed the plaintiff in fear of imminent serious bodily injury[163] and that the minor child was exposed to a substantial risk of physical or emotional injury or sexual abuse.[164]  In the 46 ten-day orders addressing custody, again, the only boxes that were checked a majority of the time indicated that the defendant had placed the plaintiff in fear of imminent serious bodily injury[165] and that the minor child was exposed to a substantial risk of physical or emotional injury or sexual abuse.[166]  Table 7 shows the instances of all the findings supporting ex parte and ten-day orders addressing custody if the findings appeared in at least 10% of the cases.  Note that the same findings appeared more than 10% of the time in both types of orders.

Table 7: Findings Supporting Ex Parte and Ten-Day Orders Addressing Custody*

Findings on Defendant’s conduct

Numbers and percentages by types of order

Ex parte orders

Percentage

Ten-day orders

Percentage

Attempted to cause bodily injury to Plaintiff

40/172

23%

13/46

28%

Intentionally caused bodily injury to Plaintiff

73/172 42% 15/46 33%

Placed Plaintiff in fear of imminent serious bodily injury

109/172 63% 26/46 57%

Placed a member of Plaintiff’s family in fear of imminent serious bodily injury

35/172 20% 5/46 11%

Placed Plaintiff in fear of continued harassment

34/172 20% 5/46 11%

Threatened Plaintiff with a deadly weapon

25/172 15% 6/46 13%

Threatened to seriously injure or kill the Plaintiff

29/172 17% 8/46 17%

Threatened to commit suicide

34/172 20% 6/46 13%

Exposed child to a substantial risk of injury or sexual abuse**

154/172 90% See Temporary Custody Addendum See Temporary Custody Addendum

*Tabulating findings that appeared in more than 10% of the cases.

**For the ten-day order, this finding appears on the Temporary Child Custody Addendum.[167]

Certainly the forms for the ex parte order and for the ten-day order encourage judges to do more than check a box.  Both forms have lines for the judge to fill in under findings for which specific facts are appropriate.  For example, under Box 4 on the form for the ex parte order, lines under Box 4e provide space for the judge to indicate specific facts supporting the judge’s finding that the defendant inflicted serious injuries upon the plaintiff or minor children.[168]  Moreover, the appellate courts have cautioned judges to find specific facts[169] and not rely on checking boxes.  Nevertheless, for the ex parte orders, the judges usually did not support the checked boxes with specific findings.  By a wide margin, the most frequent box supporting an ex parte order addressing custody indicated that the minor child was exposed to a substantial risk of physical or emotional injury or sexual abuse.[170]  Only for this finding did the judge consistently do more and support the checked box with details.  Most often the judge described the child’s witnessing of physical abuse against the plaintiff.  The next most frequent specific finding described physical violence against the child, followed less frequently by a specific finding about the defendant creating an unsafe environment for the child.

By a lesser but significant margin, the most frequent findings supporting ten-day orders addressing custody were that the defendant placed the plaintiff in fear of imminent serious bodily injury[171] and exposed the minor child to a substantial risk of physical or emotional injury or sexual abuse.[172]  Even for these findings, the judge rarely supported the checked boxes with specific findings.  Likewise, on the Temporary Child Custody Addendum, the judge checked very few findings to support the order and rarely added specific findings in the available spaces.  Table 8 gives the checked findings that appeared more than ten percent of the time and gives the most frequently appearing specific findings, noting also the percentage of cases in which that kind of specific finding appeared.

Table 8: Findings in Temporary Custody Addendum Supporting Ten-Day Orders Addressing Custody,* Most Frequently Appearing Specific Finding, and Percentage of Cases in Which the Specific Finding Appears

Findings

Numbers and percentages

Details and percentages

Numbers

Percentages

Specific finding

Percentages

Child exposed to a substantial risk of injury or sexual abuse

23/46

50%

Child present during altercation

9%

Child present during acts of domestic violence

22/46

48%

Witnessed physical violence against Plaintiff or other children

10%

Party caused or attempted to cause serious bodily injury to a party or child

10/46

 22%

Physical violence against Plaintiff

4%

Party placed the other party or child in fear of imminent serious bodily injury

8/46

17%

Physical violence against Plaintiff or child

2%

Pattern of abuse against the party or child

7/46

15%

History of physical violence against child

2%

Party has acted otherwise not in the best interest of the child

5/46

11%

Threat of violence against child

1%

Other findings on custody and safety

15/46

33%

Plaintiff is primary caregiver

1%

*Tabulating findings that appeared in more than 10% of the cases.

3.     How Did the Judge Address Custody?

a.  Did the Judge Name a Primary Custodian?  Who?

In both the ex parte and ten-day orders addressing custody, the judge either explicitly or implicitly named a primary custodian, who was always the plaintiff.  One would expect that result in the ex parte orders because, by definition, the defendant is not present at the hearing.  Accordingly, among the 172 ex parte orders in which the judge addressed custody, the plaintiff explicitly received temporary custody in 165 of the cases, and the judge ordered the defendant to stay away from the minor children in the remaining 7, implicitly giving the plaintiff primary physical custody.  But the same result followed in the ten-day hearings.  Among the ten-day orders, in the 46 cases in which the judge also addressed custody, the judge explicitly ordered temporary custody to the plaintiff in 45 of the cases; the judge ordered joint physical custody in the other case, which involved a hearing that concluded with a consent judgment.

b.  How Much Detail on Custody?

To deal with custody in a family with domestic violence, we know that orders addressing custody should be specific.  The statutes that encourage judges to address custody in domestic violence court also suggest this specificity, urging the court to make provisions for matters such as the exchange of the child, the terms of supervised visitation, and the use of alcohol or controlled substances during visitation or for twenty-four hours before the exchange of the child.[173]  Likewise, both national[174] and state[175] best practices manuals urge the domestic violence judge who awards custody to recognize that families with domestic violence need custody orders specially drafted with the conflict that has plagued the family in mind.  As explained in the North Carolina Domestic Violence Best Practices Guide for District Court Judges:

When temporary custody is granted, it is important to be specific and detailed in describing allowable contact, including the exchange of children or any other types of communication regarding the children.  Not addressing the issue opens the door for harassment; for the children to be caught in the middle and possibly used as a means to threaten and abuse the victim; and for parties to misunderstand the behavior that is prohibited by the order.[176]

In our study, however, the orders addressing custody had few details, especially the ex parte order.  The ex parte form facilitates certain additional findings about custody by enabling the judge to check a box beside the text that addresses custody.  For example, Box 7 allows the judge to check a box that finds that the defendant should stay away from the child, that the defendant should return the child to the plaintiff, or that the defendant should not remove the child from the plaintiff.[177]  By checking a different box, the judge may award temporary custody to the plaintiff;[178] by checking yet another box, the judge may order the defendant not to remove the child from the plaintiff.[179]  On the other hand, by checking a different box, the judge may allow the defendant contact with the child.[180]  The judge is not limited to box checking, however.  In three places on the form for the ex parte order, there is space for the judge to elaborate on terms for custody and visitation; the placement of the spaces indicates where specific detail is especially important.  For example, Box 8 of the additional findings[181] and Box 11 of the order[182]both relate to contact with the child, and lines beneath both boxes indicate that provisions for contact need specific detail.  The last box on the order, more generally, provides spaces for anything else the judge wishes to address.[183]

The ex parte form, however, has not resulted in specific details on custody.  Among the 172 ex parte orders in which the judge addressed custody, 128 of them (74%) had no specific details on custody, just checked boxes.  The boxes most often checked included Box 7 of the additional findings where the judge finds that the defendant should stay away from the child[184] and which implicitly orders temporary physical custody to the plaintiff; and Box 10 of the order where the judge explicitly awards temporary custody to the plaintiff.[185]

That means that among the 172 ex parte orders in which the judge addressed custody, only 44 of them provided any specific details on custody.  And, in fact, most of the handwritten notes under the boxes merely reiterate the direction in the box—for example, underscoring that the defendant is to have no contact with the child.  A few of the notes referred to supervised visitation, either generally or with a few details on how the visitation was to be supervised.  A smaller number referred to the need for an additional hearing or the input of another agency, and a still smaller number referred to an agreement on custody.  Table 9 summarizes the specific details, organizing them by the topic to which they related and the subject matter of the box under which they appeared (either “Defendant’s contact” or “Other”) and giving the number of orders in which they appeared.

Table 9: Specific Detail on Custody in Ex Parte Orders

Topic of specific detail

Subject of box under which detail appeared

Defendant’s contact Other

No contact

21/44 4/44

Supervised visitation with specifics

8/44

Supervised visitation, no specifics

1/44

Need for additional hearing or other agency input

5/44

Reference to other agreement

1/44

As one would expect, the ten-day orders were different.  The forty-six ten-day orders addressing custody all had some specific details on the Temporary Custody Addendum.  The addendum provides spaces for specific detail.  First, in Box 4 of the findings, the judge can add details on the best interests of the child and safety.[186]  Then, in Box 2 of the order, the judge can add details on several things: whether visitation should be supervised, and if so, how; whether visitation should be unsupervised, and if so, the location, frequency, and length of visitation; transportation of the child and the place of visitation; and any other restrictions.[187]  Table 10 summarizes the specific details, organizing them by the topic to which they related and the subject matter of the box under which they appeared, and giving the number of orders in which they appeared.

Table 10: Specific Detail on Custody in the Temporary Custody Addenda of Ten-Day Orders

Kind of restriction

Subject matter of box under which detail appeared

General observations on custody and safety

Restrictions on visitation

Starting place for exchange

Concluding place for exchange

Other restrictions

Parties have agreed

6/46

Referral to other court or agency

3/46 3/46

Custody to third party

1/46 1/46

Contact or visitation through third party

4/46

Supervised visitation – with specifics

8/46 8/46

Supervised visitation – without specifics

4/46 4/46

Third party residence

3/46

Designated public place

3/46 4/46

Designated time/day

1/46 1/46 5/46

Plaintiff’s residence

1/46 1/46

Defendant’s residence

1/46

Third party residence

4/46

May not remove child from state

1/46

Because these orders need to be specific,[188] and because the ten-day order may last up to a year,[189] one would expect significant detail.  While all of the ten-day orders had some specific detail, a number of them provided nothing in the way of safety.  Several depended on the parties’ agreement or directed the parties to use another court or agency.  Too many of them provided for visitation without specifics.  Other orders contemplated that the parties would come in contact with each other by providing for an exchange of the child at a certain day and time with no other restrictions or providing for an exchange of the child at one party’s residence with no other restrictions.

D.    Actions Subsequent to the 2006 Civil Domestic Violence Action: Life in the Emergency Room

A dramatic part of our study unfolded as we tracked various cohorts of our population for five years after the 2006 domestic violence action.  The data collected in this process proved the aptness of the emergency room label for domestic violence court as the people in our population returned again and again to domestic violence court to allege violence in their families.  The data also suggest that the violence in these families is real.  We know that judges have been reluctant to address custody in domestic violence court in part due to their suspicions that parties had filed complaints in domestic violence court not because violence was a part of their families but because these plaintiffs wanted to have a judge address custody in the more pro se friendly, less expensive setting of domestic violence court.  Contrary to these suspicions, the data indicate violence in many of these families over a sustained period of time, manifesting itself in different forms.  While these families often returned to domestic violence court, they were also often in criminal court—in actions in which one member was a complaining witness against the other, alleging a variety of violent crimes for which there were many convictions.

Our population consisted of all the people who appeared in the 339 civil domestic violence cases in 2006 in which custody was also in issue.  From that population we identified three different cohorts.  One larger group that we subdivided included the people in the 133 cases that concluded with a ten-day order granting the protective order.  Those 133 cases, of course, involved 266 people who appeared as either plaintiffs or defendants.  All of these 266 people became part of Cohort 1.  For reasons explained below, we further subdivided the 266 people in Cohort 1 into “Cohort 1A Custody,” for the 92 people in the 46 cases in which the judge addressed custody in the ten-day order, and “Cohort 1B No Custody,” for the 174 people in the 87 cases in which the judge granted the ten-day order but did not address custody.

We derived the final cohort, Cohort 2, from the people in the 91 ex parte cases in which the judge granted the protective order and addressed custody but which did not conclude in a ten-day order.  This third cohort involved the 182 people who were either plaintiffs or defendants in these 91 ex parte only cases.

We tracked the 448 people in Cohorts 1A, 1B, and 2 for five years—from the time of their appearance in the 2006 civil domestic action until December 2011.  With access provided by the North Carolina AOC, we determined whether any of the people in these three cohorts appeared in civil or criminal records anywhere in North Carolina.  For the people who did not, we checked to make sure that they continued to reside in North Carolina, and all of them did.  If they failed to appear in these records, in other words, it was not because they no longer resided in North Carolina.

For this study, we have reported only a fraction of all the subsequent actions in which the three cohorts were involved.  We did this for several reasons.  First, we have reported only subsequent civil and criminal actions alleging violence in the families involved in the 2006 study.  For the subsequent criminal actions, for example, we have reported the criminal actions in which the defendant in the criminal action was either the plaintiff or defendant in the 2006 civil domestic action and in which the other party in the 2006 action was the complaining witness in the subsequent criminal action.  In other words, all of these subsequent criminal actions allege violence between the adults in the 2006 civil action within five years of the civil action.

Second, we excluded many criminal actions in which our cohorts were involved because, for many of them, the data did not give the identity of the complaining witness.  Because the records did not include the identity of a child, we also have not included the many subsequent criminal actions involving a member of one of our cohorts where the alleged victim was a child.  So in this fraction of the subsequent criminal actions involving the adults in our population, we know that the defendant in the subsequent criminal action was one of the adults in the 2006 civil action for a protective order and the complaining witness was the other party to the same action.  In these subsequent criminal actions, we see the members of our cohorts charged with violations of domestic violence protective orders, violations of other court orders, assaults, kidnappings, communicating threats, thefts, and domestic trespasses—allegations of significant family violence.  Even reporting a fraction of the subsequent criminal actions, the charts of the three cohorts reveal that many of the people in these three cohorts appeared in many subsequent criminal actions alleging violence in the family.

Third, we limited the subsequent civil actions we reported in this study to civil actions under Chapter 50B between the two people in the 2006 civil domestic action.  Like the criminal actions, the 50B actions reflect only a fraction of the civil actions subsequent to the 2006 civil domestic violence action in which the members of our cohorts were involved.  These omitted civil actions (which we will analyze in articles to follow) include all the subsequent family court proceedings for custody and child support and subsequent proceedings for alimony and equitable distribution between the parties who were married.  The omitted civil actions also include a wide range of civil actions by creditors of the people in our cohorts.  In later studies, we will analyze the relationship, if any, of what happens in domestic violence court to these other kinds of subsequent criminal and civil actions.

Limiting ourselves, at least for this part of our study, to subsequent criminal and civil actions alleging violence between the adults in the 2006 population, we divided the 448 people into Cohorts 1A, 1B, and 2.  We devised these groups to see if an order addressing custody in a ten-day order, Cohort 1A, appeared to be associated with fewer subsequent actions alleging family violence, at least as measured by the cohort’s appearance in certain kinds of subsequent civil and criminal actions.  For that reason, we grouped the 92 plaintiffs and defendants in the 46 cases where the judge addressed custody in a ten-day order into Cohort 1A so that we could compare them with the 174 plaintiffs and defendants in the 87 cases where the judge entered a ten-day order without addressing custody, Cohort 1B.  We also grouped the 182 plaintiffs and defendants in the 91 cases which concluded with ex parte orders addressing custody and not with ten-day orders.  In other words, for these people in Cohort 2, the judge addressed custody in an order that expired at the end of ten days.  We wanted to see if the results showed fewer actions related to subsequent family violence in Cohort 1A than in Cohorts 1B or 2 because the court addressed custody in the ten-day order only in Cohort 1A.

Before comparing the experiences of Cohorts 1A, 1B, and 2, we should note that the sheer number of subsequent actions is staggering.  While these subsequent actions reflect only a fraction of the subsequent actions involving the three cohorts, the 448 people in the total of these three cohorts were involved in 552 subsequent criminal and civil actions alleging violence with their partner in the five years after they appeared in the 2006 civil domestic violence action.  The subsequent actions were divided between 158 criminal actions and 394 civil actions.

As explained above, we limited the subsequent civil actions to those in which one of the parties in the 2006 civil domestic action filed a subsequent action for a 50B order against the other party—a total of 394 actions.  We limited the subsequent criminal actions to those in which the defendant was a party to the 2006 civil action for a DVPO and the complaining witness in the subsequent criminal action was the other party in the 2006 civil action for a DVPO.  Even so, there were 158 subsequent criminal actions, alleging nine different crimes.  Most of the 158 subsequent criminal actions alleged violations of DVPOs—80 of them (63.5%).  The next most frequent subsequent criminal action alleged communicating threats, followed by actions alleging assaults on a female, violations of court orders other than protective orders, assaults with and without a weapon, kidnappings, thefts, and domestic trespasses.  The court order violations other than violations of DVPOs alleged probation violations and contempt proceedings for alleged violations of orders other than DVPOs, but including no contact orders.  Figure 1 breaks down the subsequent criminal actions by type.

Figure 1: Subsequent Criminal Actions Alleging Family Violence

 (see PDF for Figure 1)

 In the criminal actions, there was an overall conviction rate of 41%.  In the civil actions, the judge granted the protective order in 225 of the cases (57%).  Table 11 indicates the conviction rates in subsequent criminal actions and the order rates in the subsequent civil actions.  These numbers, conviction rates, and order rates substantiate real, significant amounts of violence in these families.

Table 11: Conviction and Order Rates in Subsequent Actions

Criminal actions

(n=158)

Numbers and percentages of convictions

Civil actions

(n=394)

Numbers and percentage of orders

DVPO violation

35/80

44%

Domestic violence

225/394

57%

Communicating threats

11/29

38%

Assault on female

12/23

52%

Court order violation (not DVPO)

2/14

14%

Assault

2/4

50%

Kidnapping

3/4

75%

Theft

1/2

50%

Assault with weapon

1/1

100%

Domestic trespass

0/1

0%

As explained above, we devised three cohorts.  Tables 12,[190] 13,[191] and 14,[192] published separately online, reflect the experiences of these three cohorts, as reflected in subsequent criminal actions alleging violence in the family and in subsequent civil actions under Chapter 50B.

These tables reveal that in Cohort 1A, in which the judge granted the ten-day order and addressed custody, there were subsequent actions alleging violence, either civil or criminal, in 17 of the 46 cases (37%).  In Cohort 1B, in which the judge granted the ten-day order but did not address custody, there were subsequent actions in 26 of the 87 cases (30%).  In Cohort 2, in which the judge granted the ex parte order addressing custody but did not enter a ten-day order, there were subsequent actions in 37 of the 91 cases (41%).  By these numbers, entering the ten-day order seems to be associated with fewer allegations of subsequent violence (Cohorts 1Aand 1B as compared to Cohort 2).  Although Cohort 1B had fewer allegations of subsequent violence than Cohort 1A, at least as reflected in these records, addressing custody or not in the ten-day order (Cohort 1A as compared to 1B) seems not to bear as much of a correlation to fewer allegations of subsequent violence as not entering a ten-day order (Cohorts 1A and 1B compared to Cohort 2).  Table 15 illustrates this experience.

Table 15: 2006 Cases with Subsequent Actions Alleging Violence in the Family

Cohorts

Numbers and percentages of families and kind of actions in each cohort

Numbers

Percentages

Subsequent Criminal

Subsequent Civil

Cohort 1A

17/46

37%

41/158

52/394

Cohort 1B

26/87

30%

54/158

101/394

Cohort 2

37/91

41%

63/158

241/394

These numbers suggest that addressing custody did not correlate with fewer allegations of subsequent family violence.  A couple of observations and additional comparisons are in order, however.  In the first place, the orders addressing custody did so without much detail.  Perhaps it is unrealistic to think that custody orders that do very little to address safety issues would have any impact on subsequent conduct related to violence.  For example, these orders gave very few directions on the exercise of visitation—a setting fraught with danger in families with violence.  It should come as no surprise, then, that these orders addressing custody do not have much impact on later experiences alleging violence.  Second, as explained above, there are many more subsequent criminal and civil actions involving these parties, and including at least some of them in later studies may yield more insights.  Third, it is worth noting that entering ten-day orders does seem to correlate with fewer allegations of subsequent family violence.  When the judge entered the ten-day order, which happened in Cohorts 1A and 1B, there were fewer charges of subsequent criminal conduct related to violence and fewer subsequent actions for a 50B: among Cohort 1A, only 37% of the cases involved these subsequent actions, and in Cohort 1B, only 30% involved such subsequent actions.  Cohort 2, on the other hand, in which there was an ex parte order but no ten-day order, had subsequent actions alleging violence between the parties in 41% of the cases.

Also, distinguishing among the types of actions alleging subsequent family violence bears more study.  In Cohort 1A, most of the criminal actions involving subsequent family violence appeared in actions alleging violations of DVPOs and other court orders—probation violations and contempt of other kinds of orders, including no contact orders.  As Figure 2 illustrates, 83% of the 41 subsequent criminal actions allege violations of either a DVPO or another court order.

Figure 2: Kinds of Subsequent Criminal Actions in Cohort 1A

 (See PDF for Figure 2)

These criminal actions, alleging a violation of a court order, do not necessarily involve an allegation of subsequent violent conduct.  Certainly the violation of a protective order might involve a failure to stay away from the plaintiff, for example, without a violent incident.  Likewise, the violation of a probation order, for example, might involve the use of drugs, without a violent incident.

On the other hand, the 54 allegations of subsequent family violence in Cohort 1B and 63 allegations of subsequent family violence in Cohort 2 appeared not only in criminal actions alleging violations of an order but in criminal actions necessarily alleging a subsequent violent incident: assaults on a female; assaults with and without a weapon; kidnapping; and communicating threats.  Figures 3 and 4 illustrate these distinctions.

Figure 3: Kinds of Subsequent Criminal Actions in Cohort 1B

(See PDF for Figure 3)

Figure 4: Kinds of Subsequent Criminal Actions in Cohort 2

 (See PDF for Figure 4)

 The difference in kinds of subsequent criminal actions is more distinct between Cohorts 1A and 1B on the one hand, compared to Cohort 2 on the other.  The families in Cohort 2 came back to court more often with allegations of violence and with substantial conviction rates, especially for actions other than violation of a court order.  These numbers indicate that there is indeed violence in the lives of the people in these cases in which the plaintiffs have asked for a protective order that addresses custody and that failure to enter an order other than an ex parte order is associated with subsequent actions in which judges have found much of the alleged violence to be real.

Table 16 summarizes the rather remarkable experiences of these three cohorts.  The first entry, “Criminal, DV,” summarizes the criminal actions alleging violence in the family: violations of DVPOs, court order violations other than a violation of domestic violation protection order, assault on a female, assault with a weapon, assault, kidnapping, communicating threats, theft, and domestic trespass.  In each category, for each cohort, the number reflects the average number of that type of subsequent action for each 2006 case in which that kind of subsequent action occurred.  For example, for the violation of a DVPO, in Cohort 1A the average number of subsequent actions per 2006 case was 3.71.  In Cohort 1B, the average number of subsequent actions per 2006 case was 2.33.  In Cohort 2, the average number of subsequent actions per 2006 case was 1.62.

Table 16: Actions Alleging Violence in the Family

Cohort 1A

Cohort 1B

Cohort 2

Criminal, DV

(all cases combined)

2.27 1.93 1.62

DVPO Violation

3.71 2.33 1.73

Court Order Violation (not DVPO)

1.33 1 1.25

Assault on Female

0 1.5 2

Assault with Weapon

0 0 1

Assault

0 0 1

Kidnapping/False Imprisonment

0 2 1

Communicating Threats

1.5 1.57 1.71

Theft Related

1 1 0

Domestic Trespass

0

1

0

Civil, DV

(all cases combined)

5.78

5.94

7.33

Table 16 supports the relationship described above that ten-day orders addressing custody have some relationship with fewer subsequent actions that clearly allege violence.  For Cohort 1A, there are higher averages per 2006 case for subsequent actions alleging violations of court orders, but lower averages for assaults, kidnapping, and communicating threats.  The highest averages for subsequent actions that clearly allege violence appear in Cohort 2.  For Cohort 2, there are lower averages per 2006 case for subsequent actions alleging violations of court orders, but higher averages for assaults, kidnapping, and communicating threats.  Some of the numbers are too small to draw many conclusions, and, at this stage of the analysis, we can only suggest relationships and associations.  But the data suggest an association between ten-day orders addressing custody and fewer subsequent actions clearly alleging violence and between ex parte orders only and more subsequent actions clearly alleging violence.

III.  Implications of the Study

In many ways, the data from this study suggest areas for further research.  Some of the data are incomplete.  For example, we were not able to identify the judges in all the ex parte and ten-day orders in our study.  We expected that there might be some results that could be explained by the identity of the judge entering the order, but for too many of the orders, we could not determine which judge had signed the order.  Even so, as we suspected, for the signed orders, some judges who entered either an ex parte or ten-day order in our population always also addressed custody.  On the other hand, some judges who entered either an ex parte or ten-day order in our population never addressed custody.  Later studies should pursue these correlations.

Also, there are other categories of data that we have yet to explore.  For example, we know that before the data enable us to draw too many associations, we need to know something about the violence in these families before the 2006 civil action for a protective order.  If the experience of violence in our population differed significantly in kind or degree before the 2006 action, then we need to take those differences into account in quantifying their experiences after the 2006 action.  Even with the data that we have yet to gather and analyze, the data we have analyzed lead to a number of observations.

A.     It’s Not Just About Custody, and the Violence Is Real

The data are strong support for the conclusion that this population was not manufacturing claims of violence in order to get the judge to address the real issue—custody.  In the first place, if our estimates are correct about how many of the filings involved a minor child between the parties, then in only about fifty-nine percent of those cases did the plaintiff ask for an order addressing custody.[193]  Also, there are significant numbers of subsequent actions related to violence in these families, with conviction rates and order rates that underscore real violence.[194]

B.     The Pressure of Time Keeps the Judge from Entering Effective Orders Addressing Custody

The way in which the judges addressed custody leads inescapably to the conclusion that time pressures keep the judges from rendering effective custody orders.  In so many of the orders addressing custody, the judge did no more than check a box.  While the statutes and best practices manuals urge judges to incorporate safety features in any custody order in a family with violence, many of these orders addressing custody gave no specifics directed towards safety.[195]  Even the ones with specifics addressed only part of an issue—for example, specifying supervised visitation without specifying how it was to be supervised, or naming the parties’ residences as the place for exchange of the child without putting in place any safety features for that exchange.  In addition, the heavy reliance on forms—necessary, but problematic—encourages the routine checking of only a few boxes.  For a number of the cases, the results seemed to depend as much on which boxes the plaintiffs had checked as they did on what the plaintiffs had alleged.[196]

C.     Judges Are Still Reluctant to Enter Orders Addressing Custody

One obvious conclusion from the study is that judges in domestic violence court continue to be reluctant to enter orders addressing custody.  Consistently, the allegation of a pending proceeding for assault on a female led to the entry of either an ex parte or a ten-day order, especially one addressing custody.[197]  While this conclusion suggests that judges are distinguishing among cases, it also suggests that judges rely on the existence of other proceedings before they feel confident about the allegations before them.

Even more dramatically, judges were much more likely to enter orders addressing custody if these orders were going to expire in a very short period of time.  Despite the stringent findings required for ex parte orders of custody, judges were much more likely to address custody in ex parte orders than they were in ten-day orders.[198]  This disparity suggests that judges continue to question the validity of temporary custody orders in the longer-lived order, despite the best efforts of legislation and best practices manuals.

D.    The Data May Indicate That Addressing Custody in the Protective Order Correlates to Fewer Subsequent Actions Alleging Subsequent Violent Incidents

Certainly, the finding that an order addressing custody may be related to fewer actions alleging subsequent acts of violence deserves follow up—perhaps more so than any other finding of the study.  In the charts distinguishing among the kinds of subsequent criminal actions in the three cohorts, the data indicate that the subsequent actions for Cohort 1A, the plaintiffs with ten-day orders addressing custody, disproportionately consist of court order violations, which do not necessarily involve allegations of subsequent violent incidents.  In Cohorts 1B and 2, involving plaintiffs with ten-day orders not addressing custody or involving plaintiffs with ex parte orders only, there are more subsequent actions that allege subsequent incidents of violence and fewer allegations related to court order violations.  If further study reveals that the subsequent court order violations in Cohort 1A did not involve allegations of subsequent violent incidents, these data might indeed support the association of ten-day orders addressing custody with less subsequent family violence.

Conclusion

This study involved a close look at the orders addressing custody in domestic violence court in 2006, relatively shortly after the passage of legislation urging judges to pay attention to custody as they addressed the plaintiff’s request for a protective order.  Perhaps the legislation had not had time to have the impact that the reformers had hoped.

Even so, the data suggest that we should redouble our efforts to encourage domestic violence courts to address custody.  In the first place, so many families with violence end up in domestic violence court—the law’s emergency room.  The trend towards parties in family law cases appearing without a lawyer shows no sign of abating, and the pro se friendly nature of domestic violence court ensures that domestic violence court is where families with violence will continue to go.

There is reason to hope that, as judges in domestic violence court become more accustomed to addressing custody, they will not only address custody but will do so in more detail.  Certainly best practice manuals will continue to devise checklists that facilitate the entry of orders addressing safety concerns.  There is reason to think that, just as judges have relied on the current forms, they will eventually embrace forms that make it easier to spell out the terms of the custody order and easier to address the real safety concerns.

One observation about the data deserves significant attention.  We chose the Twenty-First Judicial District, in part, because of the presence of the CLC.  In 2006, the year from which our data were derived, the CLC had been in existence only a short time.  Of the 339 cases in our study, the CLC was involved in only 12 of them, and even fewer of those appeared in any of our three cohorts.  But in the few in which the CLC was involved, there were almost no subsequent actions alleging subsequent violent incidents in the family.  The numbers were too small to draw any conclusions—except that the use of the custody GAL deserves much more attention.

If the use of the custody GAL is indeed related to less subsequent violence in the family, then that conclusion should lead to expanding the use of GALs in domestic violence court.  That conclusion would suggest that we do more of what the Wingspread Conference suggested[199]: differentiating among families experiencing domestic violence, with a custody GAL assigned to the most troubled families, and screening and triage, with a custody GAL assigned to the most intractable of conflicts.

In short, the findings of this study have tantalized us with the possibility that addressing custody in domestic violence court is associated with fewer incidents of subsequent violence in the family.  Though the numbers are too small to draw any conclusions, the data, at least, have suggested that there may be methods and processes that would not only encourage judges to address custody but also to address it in more detail.  The prospects of decreasing subsequent violent incidents for families with children are not only tantalizing but also a moral imperative.

Appendix I: Complaint and Motion for Domestic Violence Protective Order

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Appendix II: Affidavit as to Status of Minor Child

 (See PDF for Appendix II)

Appendix III: Ex Parte Domestic Violence Order of Protection

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Appendix IV: Domestic Violence Order of Protection and Temporary Child Custody Addendum

 (See PDF for Appendix IV)


*   Executive Associate Dean and Professor of Law, Wake Forest University.

**   Professor of Law, Wake Forest University.

The authors owe several special debts of gratitude.  First of all, the authors thank Chief District Court Judge William B. Reingold, Twenty-First Judicial District of North Carolina, and Alison Cranford, Coordinator, Safe on Seven, for their personal assistance and for the assistance of their staff in facilitating access to the data.  Likewise, the authors are grateful to the North Carolina Administrative Office of the Courts, which provided access to records in order to follow the population of this study and provide data that might help inform policymakers in this critical area of the law.  The authors owe two more special debts.  One goes to L. Lamar Armstrong, III, Pinto Coates Kyre & Bowers, who, while he was a student at Wake Forest Law School, took control of the project, not only organizing it but also single-handedly collecting much of the data.  Another goes to Catherine Hammack, a student who expertly organized the reporting of the data and helped marshal many of the critical findings.  In addition, a team of law students provided excellent assistance in several phases of the work, including Jim Bauer, Jeremy Demmitt, Christine Donnelly, Kyle Frost, Kevin Harrison, Matthew Houston, Paul Monroe, Melissa Scarola, and Tiffany Tyler.  Finally, we thank Penny Spry, Iris Sunshine, and Amy Kuhlman with the Child Advocacy Center of Central Carolina.  Their advocacy on behalf of children has made our community better and inspired the authors to take on this project.

[1].   N.C. Criminal Justice Analysis Ctr., Dispositional Outcomes of Domestic Violence Ex-Parte and Domestic Violence Protective Orders, Sys. Stats, Winter 2002, at 4.

[2].   See infra Part II.B.

[3].   State Protection Order List, Nat’l Coalition Against Domestic Violence, http://www.ncadv.org/files/StateProtectionOrderList.pdf (last updated Jan. 19, 2006).

[4].   N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-1, -3(a) (2011).

[5].   See Sarah M. Buel, Effective Assistance of Counsel for Battered Women Defendants: A Normative Construct, 26 Harv. Women’s L.J. 217, 224 (2003) (noting that some battered women are denied protection because of “overwhelmed courts”); Sally F. Goldfarb, Reconceiving Civil Protection Orders for Domestic Violence: Can Law Help End the Abuse Without Ending the Relationship?, 29 Cardozo L. Rev. 1487, 1509 (2008) (stating that civil protection orders “bring the domestic violence victim into contact with the legal system” and “[are] often a battered woman’s first step toward obtaining legal assistance to stop the violence” (citations omitted)); Kit Kinports & Karla Fischer, Orders of Protection in Domestic Violence Cases: An Empirical Assessment of the Impact of the Reform Statutes, 2 Tex. J. Women & L. 163, 198–99 (1993) (describing the dockets as overcrowded).

[6].   John M. Greacen, Framing the Issues for the Summit on the Future of Self-Represented Litigationin The Future of Self-Represented Litigation: Report from the March 2005 Summit 19, 23 (2005) (noting that sixty percent to ninety percent “of family law cases now involve at least one self-represented litigant”).

[7].   Alesha Durfee, Victim Narratives, Legal Representation, and Domestic Violence Civil Protection Orders, 4 Feminist Criminology 7, 10 (2009).

[8].   See, e.g., Catherine F. Klein & Leslye E. Orloff, Providing Legal Protection for Battered Women: An Analysis of State Statutes and Case Law, 21 Hofstra L. Rev. 801, 1049 (1993) (“Both state statutes and case law encourage and require court employees to assist petitioners in filing for civil protection orders.” (citation omitted)).

[9].   See Margaret B. Drew & Marilu E. Gresens, Denying Choice of Forum: An Interference by the Massachusetts Trial Court with Domestic Violence Victims’ Rights and Safety, 43 Suffolk U. L. Rev. 293, 324 (2010) (“[F]amily court judges often adopt a cynical point of view towards allegations of domestic violence, and often assume that a parent who applies for a protection order does so in order to get a ‘leg up’ in the custody dispute.” (citation omitted)); Deborah M. Goelman,Shelter from the Storm: Using Jurisdictional Statutes to Protect Victims of Domestic Violence After the Violence Against Women Act of 2000, 13 Colum. J. Gender & L. 101, 114 (2004) (finding that courts are reluctant to issue temporary custody and visitation orders for fear that “petitioners are attempting to circumvent the rules governing domestic relations cases” (citation omitted)); Cherry Henault, The Reissuance of Domestic Violence Orders Under Kentucky Law: A Due Process Analysis, 40 Brandeis L.J. 575, 577–78 (2001) (describing “The Poor Man’s Divorce”—a situation in which a domestic violence order is obtained with the objective of being granted custody faster and cheaper than commencing divorce proceedings).

[10].   See Juli Kim & Leslie Starsoneck, North Carolina District Courts’ Response to Domestic Violence:  Best Practices and Judicial Training 16 (2007) (finding that judges concurred with the assessment that “sometimes parties pursue custody [when domestic violence protective orders are being considered in order to gain] a later advantage as part of a divorce action”).

[11].   Peter Finn & Sarah Colson, U.S. Dep’t of Justice, Civil Protection Orders: Legislation, Current Court Practice, and Enforcement 38–39 (1990) (noting that forty states had statutes authorizing judges to grant temporary custody and visitation in a protection order).

[12].   See, e.g., Kinports & Fischer, supra note 5, at 205–07 (“11.2% of the respondents indicated that the judges in their county will not consider awarding custody of the children in an order of protection.” (citation omitted)).

[13].   See, e.g., Goelman, supra note 9 (“A recent survey revealed that even in jurisdictions in which protection order statutes explicitly provide for the issuance of temporary custody and visitation orders, some courts are unwilling to issue such orders.” (citation omitted)).

[14].   N.C. Criminal Justice Analysis Ctr., supra note 1, at 5 (noting the greatest discordance between requests that the defendant not interfere with the plaintiff’s child(ren) and orders granting this request).

[15].   Goldfarb, supra note 5, at 1520 (“Women are most at risk after ending, or while trying to end, an abusive relationship.” (citations omitted)); Martha R. Mahoney, Legal Images of Battered Women: Redefining the Issue of Separation, 90 Mich. L. Rev. 1, 65–68 (1991) (discussing stories of “separation assault”—an “assault on a woman’s body and volition that seeks to block her from leaving, retaliate for her departure, or forcibly end the separation”).

[16].   See Goldfarb, supra note 5, at 1519–20 (“Batterers often use their access to the children to perpetrate further violence against the mother—for example, when exchanging the children for visitation periods.” (citations omitted)); Kinports & Fischer, supra note 5, at 197 (“Awarding the petitioner temporary custody of the children and limiting the alleged abuser’s visitation rights is crucial because ‘[j]udges and victims alike agree that nowhere is the potential for renewed violence greater than during visitation.’” (alteration in original) (citation omitted)); Klein & Orloff, supra note 8, at 952 (“Court orders which force victims to share custody with their abusers place both victims and children in danger.”).

[17].   E.g., Joan Zorza, Child Custody Practices of the Family Courts in Cases Involving Domestic Violencein Domestic Violence, Abuse, and Child Custody: Legal Strategies and Policy Issues 1-1, 1-5 (Mo Therese Hanna & Barry Goldstein eds., 2010).

[18].   Violence Against Women and Department of Justice Reauthorization Act of 2005, Pub. L. No. 109-162, 119 Stat. 2960.

[19].   See, e.g.id. § 102, 119 Stat. at 2975–78 (“Grants to encourage arrest and enforce protection orders improvements.”); id. § 105, 119 Stat. 2979–81 (“The Violence Against Women Act court training and improvements.”); id. § 504, 119 Stat. at 3026–28 (“Grants to foster public health responses to domestic violence, dating violence, sexual assault, and stalking grants.”); id. § 1131, 119 Stat. at 3107 (“Grants to local nonprofit organizations to improve outreach services to victims of crime.”).

[20].   See, e.g., H.R. 1354, 2003 Leg., 2003 Sess. (N.C. 2004).

[21].   Annette M. Gonzalez & Linda M. Rio Reichmann, Representing Children in Civil Cases Involving Domestic Violence, 39 Fam. L.Q. 197, 199 (2005) (“[F]orty-nine jurisdictions allow courts to make custody determinations during a protective order hearing.”).

[22].   See, e.g., N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-3(a1) (2011) (“Upon the request of either party . . . the court shall consider and may award temporary custody of minor children”).

[23].   See, e.g.id. § 50B-3(a)(4) (providing that a “protective order may include” an award of temporary custody of minor children (emphasis added)).

[24].   Gonzalez & Reichmann, supra note 21, at 202 & n.42 (referencing Alaska, California, Indiana, Massachusetts, Missouri, Montana, New Hampshire, North Dakota, and Washington).  For a discussion of the North Carolina amendments, see infra Part II.A.

[25].   See Susan R. Elsen, Guardian Ad Litemin Family Law Advocacy for Low and Moderate Income Litigants 281, 282 (2d ed. 2008).

[26].   For a discussion of high-conflict custody, see, for example, Eleanor E. Maccoby & Robert H. Mnookin, Dividing the Child: Social and Legal Dilemmas of Custody 141–53 (1992).

[27].   See id. at 149–53.

[28].   See Connie J. A. Beck & Bruce D. Sales, A Critical Reappraisal of Divorce Mediation Research and Policy, 6 Psychol. Pub. Pol’y & L. 989, 991 (2000) (noting that an advantage of mediation is that it “develop[s] agreements that are more satisfying to both parties, thereby increasing the likelihood that the parents will comply with them over time”).

[29].   For a discussion of California, Connecticut, and Massachusetts as the first states to mandate custody mediation, see Daniel G. Brown, Divorce and Family Mediation:  History, Review, Future Directions, 20 Conciliation Cts. Rev., Dec. 1982, at 1, 18.  North Carolina initiated child custody mediation with a pilot project in 1983 and authorized statewide implementation in 1989.  3 Suzanne Reynolds, Lee’s North Carolina Family Law § 13.76(a) (5th ed. 2002).  As of 2009, North Carolina had implemented mandatory mediation in forty-one judicial districts serving ninety-seven of its one hundred counties.  N.C. Admin. Office of the Courts, Best Practices for Child Custody and Visitation Mediation Program 3 (2010).

[30].   See generally Martha Fineman, Dominant Discourse, Professional Language, and Legal Change in Child Custody Decisionmaking, 101 Harv. L. Rev. 727 (1988).

[31].   See, e.g., Penelope E. Bryan, Killing Us Softly: Divorce Mediation and the Politics of Power, 40 Buff. L. Rev. 441, 446–98 (1992) (noting that “mediation empowers only the already more powerful husband” and “does not protect the lesser powered wife from disadvantageous outcomes”); Richard E. Crouch, The Dark Side of Mediation: Still Unexplored, in Alternative Means of Family Dispute Resolution 339, 343–44 (Howard Davidson et al. eds., 1982) (describing mediation as the exploiter’s ally); Trina Grillo, The Mediation Alternative: Process Dangers for Women, 100 Yale L.J. 1545, 1592 (1991) (noting that the mediator may not “have a sufficiently clear vision of the interaction between the divorcing spouses to make a considered decision about if and how the power needs to be balanced”); Harriet N. Cohen, Mediation in Divorce: Boon or Bane?, Women’s Advoc. (Nat’l Ctr. On Women and Family Law, New York, N.Y.), Mar. 1984, at 1 (noting that mediation poses a potential danger of “[u]nequal information and bargaining power and unequal bargaining ability between husbands and wives”).  See generally Carol Lefcourt, Women, Mediation and Family Law, 18 Clearinghouse Rev. 266 (1984) (summarizing a conference of women’s advocates in family law that discussed the “growing use of mediation in family law and its harmful impact on women”); Laurie Woods, Mediation: A Backlash to Women’s Progress on Family Law Issues, 19 Clearinghouse Rev. 431 (1985) (“Mediation seeks to privatize family law problems . . . denying women the opportunity to enforce and consolidate their victories and to empower themselves further through the development of new rights in the legislatures and the courts.”).

[32].   Some of the strong support for mediation draws on a study of couples who were litigating custody and then agreed to be randomly assigned either to mediation or litigation.  For reports on this study, see generally Robert E. Emery & Melissa M. Wyer, Child Custody Mediation and Litigation: An Experimental Evaluation of the Experience of Parents, 55 J. Consulting & Clinical Psychol. 179 (1987); Robert E. Emery & Melissa M. Wyer, A Systematic Comparison of Child Custody Mediation and Litigation, Fairshare, Feb. 1988, at 10.  For the longitudinal study based on these participants, see generally Robert E. Emery et al., Child Custody Mediation and Litigation: Custody, Contact, and Coparenting 12 Years After Initial Dispute Resolution, 69 J. Consulting & Clinical Psychol. 323 (2001).  For the book drawing on this study, see generally Robert E. Emery, The Truth About Children and Divorce (2004).

[33].   Elizabeth Scott & Andre Derdeyn, Rethinking Joint Custody, 45 Ohio St. L.J. 455, 458 (1984).

[34].   See Paul C. Glick, Children of Divorced Parents in Demographic Perspective, 35 J. Soc. Issues 170, 174 (1979) (noting that the number of children involved in divorce rose from .5 million per year in 1960 to 1.1 million in 1973 and remained at about 1.1 million per year through 1976).

[35].   See Judith S. Wallerstein & Joan Berlin Kelly, Surviving the Breakup: How Children and Parents Cope with Divorce 211 (1980) (finding that children in divorced families were “consciously and intensely unhappy and dissatisfied with their life,” “felt rejected and unloved” by their parents, and were “moderately to severely depressed”); E. Mavis Hetherington et al., The Aftermath of Divorcein Mother/Child, Father/Child Relationships 149, 149–50, 174 (Joseph H. Stevens, Jr. & Marilyn Mathews eds., 1978) (finding in a two-year longitudinal study that “[c]hildren in divorced families were more dependent, disobedient, aggressive, whining, demanding, and unaffectionate than children in intact families”).

[36].   Jana B. Singer & William L. Reynolds, A Dissent on Joint Custody, 47 Md. L. Rev. 497, 501 (1988).

[37].   See id.see also Scott & Derdeyn, supra note 33, at 461.

[38].   Reynolds, supra note 29, § 13.6(c).

[39].   Id. § 13.6(b)(iii).

[40].   Id. § 13.7(a).

[41].   Scott & Derdeyn, supra note 33, at 469–71.

[42].   Fineman, supra note 30, at 728.

[43].   Id. at 742–44; see also Linda K. Girdner, Custody Mediation in the United States: Empowerment or Social Control?, 3 Can. J. Women & L. 134, 141–42 (1989) (comparing attorney mediators, whose focus is negotiating agreements about the disputed issues, to nonlawyer mediators, whose focus is restructuring the family).

[44].   Fineman, supra note 30, at 765–66 (“[T]he parent who is willing to live up to the ideal of shared custody and control is the one with the child’s real interests at heart.” (citation omitted)).

[45].   Id.

[46].   For the first presumption as it appeared in California in 1979, see Cal. Civ. Code § 4600.5(a) (Deering 1988) (repealed 1994) (presuming joint custody even in a disputed case).  For the presumption that remains in the current version of the Florida custody statute, see Fla. Stat. § 61.13(2)(b)(2) (2012) (requiring shared parenting unless the court finds that the arrangement “would be detrimental to the child”).

[47].   See, e.g., Iowa Code § 598.41(1)(c) (2012) (directing the court to “consider the denial by one parent of the child’s opportunity for maximum continuing contact with the other parent, without just cause, a significant factor in determining the proper custody arrangement”).

[48].   Reynolds, supra note 29, § 13.60.  For an analysis of the effect of these statutes in one state, see Margaret F. Brinig, Penalty Defaults in Family Law: The Case of Child Custody, 33 Fla. St. U. L. Rev. 779, 804–14 (2006) (analyzing the shared-custody preference enacted in Oregon and concluding that the statute had only a limited effect on joint physical custody awards).  For a similar conclusion about custody settlements, see Margaret F. Brinig, Unhappy Contracts: The Case of Divorce Settlements, 1 Rev. L. & Econ. 241, 249–61 (2005) (analyzing settlements in a county in Iowa and concluding that what the parties might have expected in litigation did not significantly affect the custody terms of their settlements).

[49].   See supra note 35 and accompanying text.

[50].   See, e.g., Jennifer M. Jenkins, Marital Conflict and Children’s Emotions: The Development of an Anger Organization, 62 J. Marriage & Fam. 723, 733 (2000) (“Children exposed to anger-based conflict between parents showed more frequent anger expressions, more deviant anger expressions, and more frequent taunting.”); Lynn Fainsilber Katz & John M. Gottman, Patterns of Marital Conflict Predict Children’s Internalizing and Externalizing Behaviors, 29 Developmental Psychol. 940, 946 (1993) (finding that when parents are hostile or angry when resolving marital conflict, children exhibit signs of antisocial behavior and anxiety).

[51].   Paul R. Amato & Alan Booth, A Generation at Risk:  Growing Up in an Era of Family Upheaval 237 (1997) (finding that divorce is advantageous for children of parents in highly conflicted marriages).

[52].   Id. (“[M]any children from these low-conflict divorces experience adverse effects that last far into adulthood”).  For more somber conclusions, see E. Mavis Hetherington & John Kelly, For Better or For Worse: Divorce Reconsidered 203–24 (2002) (noting the adverse risks for children of divorce); Judith Wallerstein et al., The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce:  A 25 Year Landmark Study 294–316 (2000) (noting that the impact of divorce “increases over time and rises to a crescendo in adulthood” where “children of divorce suffer the most”).

[53].   See, e.g., Maccoby & Mnookin, supra 26, at 284–85 (rejecting a presumption of joint custody); Margaret Martin Barry, The District of Columbia’s Joint Custody Presumption: Misplaced Blame and Simplistic Solutions, 46 Cath. U. L. Rev. 767, 821 (1997) (rejecting a presumption of joint custody).

[54].   See Barry, supra note 53, at 820–22.

[55].   Maccoby & Mnookin, supra note 26, at 284–85 (“[I]n those cases where the parents are involved in bitter dispute, we believe a presumption for joint custody would do harm.  Our study suggests that in a number of cases in which families today adopt joint physical custody, there has been substantial legal conflict.  To the extent that this custody arrangement is the result of encouragement by mediators, or judges for that matter, we think it is unwise.”).

[56].   Michael E. Lamb, Placing Children’s Interests First: Developmentally Appropriate Parenting Plans, 10 Va. J. Soc. Pol’y & L. 98, 105–06 (2002) (citations omitted).

[57].   Elizabeth S. Scott, Pluralism, Parental Preference, and Child Custody, 80 Calif. L. Rev. 615, 617 (1992).

[58].   With the primary caregiver presumption, the judge makes findings on which parent, if either, performed most of the caregiving functions.  If there was a primary caregiver, the court awards primary custody to that parent and awards visitation to the other.  The approximation rule allocates time between the two based on time spent, without requiring the court to label one parent or the other as primary.  Am. Law Inst., Principles of the Law of Family Dissolution: Analysis and Recommendations § 2.08 & cmts. a–b (2002).

[59].   Id. § 2.08 & cmt. a.

[60].   Id. § 2.08; see also Robert F. Kelly & Shawn L. Ward, Allocating Custodial Responsibilities at Divorce: Social Science Research and the American Law Institute’s Approximation Rule, 40 Fam. Ct. Rev. 350, 351–55 (2002) (discussing the approximation rule and the rationales for its adoption).  For an explanation of the rule by the reporter for the custody chapter, see Katharine T. Bartlett, U.S. Custody Law and Trends in the Context of the ALI Principles of the Law of Family Dissolution, 10 Va. J. Soc. Pol’y & L. 5, 16 (2002).

[61].   Nancy S. Weinfield, Comment on Lamb’s “Placing Children’s Interests First,” 10 Va. J. Soc. Pol’y & L. 120, 123, 127–28 (2002) (noting the potential negative consequences of creating two “primary caregivers”).  See generally Cheri L. Wood, Childless Mothers?—The New Catch-22: You Can’t Have Your Kids and Work for Them Too, 29 Loy. L.A. L. Rev. 383 (1995) (arguing for custody based on previously established patterns of care and acknowledging the importance of bonding and attachment security).

[62].   See Maccoby & Mnookin, supra note 26, at 197 (“When families had been awarded joint physical custody in their divorce decree, the children quite often . . . actually lived primarily with one parent or the other, rather than in dual residence.”).  See generally Wood, supra note 61 (arguing for custody based on previously established patterns of care).

[63].   See generally Margaret F. Brinig, Does Parental Autonomy Require Equal Custody at Divorce?, 65 La. L. Rev. 1345 (2005) (discussing the joint custody preference); Fineman, supra note 30 (discussing the trend towards joint custody).  For a critical review of Brinig’s methodology, see generally William S. Comanor,Child Visitation and Performance: The Evidence, 66 La. L. Rev. 763 (2006).  For a critical review of Fineman’s work, see generally Milton C. Regan, Jr., Divorce Reform and the Legacy of Gender, 90 Mich. L. Rev. 1453 (1992).

[64].   See, e.g., Joan S. Meier, Domestic Violence, Child Custody, and Child Protection: Understanding Judicial Resistance and Imagining the Solutions, 11 Am. U. J. Gender Soc. Pol’y & L. 657, 667–88 (2003) (criticizing the courts’ separation of “domestic violence from custody/visitation”).

[65].   Janet R. Johnson, High-Conflict Divorce, Future Child., Spring 1994, at 165, 168.

[66].   In families where minor children are present, “domestic violence” is more properly termed “family violence.”  See Peter G. Jaffe, Children of Domestic Violence: Special Challenges in Custody and Visitation Dispute Resolutionin Domestic Violence and Children: Resolving Custody and Visitation Disputes 20 (Janet Carter et al. eds., 1995).

[67].   Mahoney, supra note 15, at 46.

[68].   Meier, supra note 64, at 668–69.

[69].   Ruth I. Abrams & John M. Greaney, Report of the Gender Bias Study of the Supreme Judicial Court 62–63 (1989).

[70].   Elizabeth M. Schneider, Battered Women & Feminist Lawmaking 170–72 (2000); Mahoney, supra note 15, at 44–46; Meier, supra note 64, at 684–85.

[71].   Naomi R. Cahn, Civil Images of Battered Women: The Impact of Domestic Violence on Child Custody Decisions, 44 Vand. L. Rev. 1041, 1072 & n.171 (1991); Karen Czapanskiy, Domestic Violence, the Family, and the Lawyering Process: Lessons from Studies on Gender Bias in the Courts, 27 Fam. L.Q. 247, 255–58 (1993).

[72].   Judith G. Greenberg, Domestic Violence and the Danger of Joint Custody Presumptions, 25 N. Ill. U. L. Rev. 403, 404, 411 (2005).

[73].   Evan Stark, Re-presenting Woman Battering: From Battered Woman Syndrome to Coercive Control, 58 Alb. L. Rev. 973, 1016–17 (1995).

[74].   Am. Psychological Ass’n, Violence and the Family 40 (1996).

[75].   See Catherine Kirkwood, Leaving Abusive Partners: From the Scars of Survival to the Wisdom for Change 54–55 (1993); Einat Peled & Diane Davis, Groupwork with Children of Battered Women: A Practitioner’s Guide 8 (1995).

[76].   Lundy Bancroft & Jay G. Silverman, The Batterer as Parent: Addressing the Impact of Domestic Violence on Family Dynamics 124 (2002).

[77].   Judith Lewis Herman, Trauma and Recovery 246 (1997); Joan S. Meier, Notes from the Underground: Integrating Psychological and Legal Perspectives on Domestic Violence in Theory and Practice, 21 Hofstra L. Rev. 1295, 1328–29 (1993).

[78].   Mary Ann Dutton, Understanding Women’s Responses to Domestic Violence: A Redefinition of Battered Woman Syndrome, 21 Hofstra L. Rev. 1191, 1216–17 (1993).

[79].   See Joan Zorza, Protecting the Children in Custody: Disputes When One Parent Abuses the Other, 29 Clearinghouse Rev. 1113, 1118 (1996).

[80].   Martha McMahon & Ellen Pence, Doing More Harm than Good? Some Cautions on Visitation Centersin Ending the Cycle of Violence: Community Responses to Children of Battered Women 186, 187 (Einat Peled et al. eds., 1995).

[81].   Cynthia Grover Hastings, Letting Down Their Guard: What Guardians Ad Litem Should Know About Domestic Violence in Child Custody Disputes, 24 B.C. Third World L.J. 283, 311–12 & n.193 (2004).

[82].   Id. at 308.

[83].   Bancroft & Silverman, supra note 76, at 37–38.

[84].   Peter G. Jaffe et al., Children of Battered Women 32–75 (Alan E. Kazdin ed., 1990) (discussing the impact on children who witness domestic violence both “directly through exposure to aggressive models and indirectly through the stress created for the mother”).

[85].   William Arroyo & Spencer Eth, Assessment Following Violence-Witnessing Traumain Ending the Cycle of Violence: Community Responses to Children of Battered Women, supra note 80, at 27, 29.

[86].   See Susan F. Cole & M. Geron Gadd, Uncovering the Roots of School Violence, 34 New Eng. L. Rev. 601, 604–14 (2000).

[87].   David A. Wolfe et al., The Effects of Children’s Exposure to Domestic Violence: A Meta-Analysis and Critique, 6 Clinical Child. & Fam. Psychol. Rev. 171, 184 (2003).

[88].   Clare Dalton et al., High Conflict Divorce, Violence, and Abuse: Implications for Custody and Visitation Decisions, Juv. & Fam. Ct. J., Fall 2003, at 11, 18.

[89].   Bancroft & Silverman, supra note 76, at 43.

[90].   Maria Roy, Children in the Crossfire: Violence in the Home—How Does It Affect Our Children? 92–96 (1988).

[91].   Model Code on Domestic and Family Violence § 401 (Nat’l Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges 1994).

[92].   See Nancy K. D. Lemon, Statutes Creating Rebuttable Presumptions Against Custody to Batterers: How Effective Are They?, 28 Wm. Mitchell L. Rev. 601, 604–05 (2001).

[93].   Gonzalez & Reichmann, supra note 21, at 198 (noting that every state except Connecticut had passed a statute addressing domestic violence in custody awards).  Connecticut has since enacted a statute addressing the topic.  Conn. Gen. Stat. § 46b-56(c)(14) (2009).

[94].   Lemon, supra note 92, at 667.

[95].   Sharon K. Araji & Rebecca L. Bosek, Domestic Violence, Contested Child Custody, and the Courts: Findings from Five Studiesin Domestic Violence, Abuse, and Child Custody: Legal Strategies and Policy Issues, supra note 17, at 6-1, 6-16 to 6-17.

[96].   Nancy Ver Steegh & Clare Dalton, Report from the Wingspread Conference on Domestic Violence and Family Courts, 46 Fam. Ct. Rev. 454, 454–55 (2008).

[97].   Id. at 455–65.

[98].   Id. at 466.

[99].   Id. at 468.

[100].   See, e.g.Domestic Violence Issues in District Court Civil Cases, N.C. Ct. Sys., http://www.nccourts.org/Citizens/SRPlanning/Documents/dome2007
-2008.pdf (last visited Nov. 1, 2012) (providing statistics on the number of domestic violence cases in North Carolina).

[101].   See supra notes 21–24 and accompanying text.

[102].   See, e.g., N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-3(a), (a1) (2011).

[103].   Gonzalez & Reichmann, supra note 21, at 202–03.

[104].   Araji & Bosek, supra note 95, at 6-14 to 6-17.

[105].   2004 N.C. Sess. Laws 740–41 (codified as amended at N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-2(c) (2011)).

[106].   N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-2(c).  The statute also gives sample provisions for these orders, like directives to stay away from a child or to return the child, terms for contact, provisions for exchange of the child, suggestions for supervised visitation, and other conditions to protect the minor child and the aggrieved party.  Id.

[107].   Id. §§ 50B-3(a1)(2)–(3) (emphasis added).

[108].   Id. § 50B-3(a1)(3)(h).

[109].   Id. §§ 50B-2(c), -3(a)(4), -3(a1).

[110].   Reynolds, supra note 29, § 13.100(a).  “Permanent” orders of custody are modifiable but trigger the substantial change of circumstances standard.  Id.

[111].   Emily Sack, Family Violence Prevention Fund, Creating a Domestic Violence Court:  Guidelines and Best Practices 5–7 (Lindsey Anderson et al. eds., 2002).

[112].   Domestic Violence Services for Victims, Family Servs., http://www.fsifamily.org/dvsv.cfm (last visited Nov. 1, 2012).

[113].   Id.

[114].   Id.

[115].   Conversation with William Reingold, Chief Judge, Twenty-First Judicial District of N.C., in Winston-Salem, N.C. (May 20, 2009).

[116].   Id.

[117].   Id.

[118].   2004 N.C. Sess. Laws 742–43 (codified as amended at N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-3 (2011)).

[119].   How We Do It, Child. Law Center Cent. N.C., http://www.childrenslawcenternc.org/how/Default.aspx (last visited Oct. 13, 2012); What We Do, Child. Law Center Cent. N.C., http://www.childrenslawcenternc.org/what/Default.aspx (last visited Oct. 13, 2012).

[120].   How We Do Itsupra note 119; Legal Areas, Child. Law Center Cent. N.C., http://www.childrenslawcenternc.org/what/legal-areas.aspx (last visited Oct. 13, 2012).

[121].   Lisa Snedeker, Child Advocacy Clinic Rewarding for Students While Benefitting Piedmont Children, Wake Forest U. Sch. L., http://news.law.wfu.edu/2012/08/child-advocacy-clinic-rewarding-for-students/ (last visited Oct. 13, 2012); News, Child. Law Center Cent. N.C., http://www.childrenslawcenternc.org/News/Default.aspx (last visited Oct. 13, 2012).

[122].   How We Do Itsupra note 119.  For programs in other states, see the description of the Rocky Mountain Children’s Law Center Pro Bono Attorney Project in Colorado and the District of Columbia’s Children’s Law Center Pro Bono GAL project in Gonzalez & Reichmann, supra note 21, at 203–06.

[123].   People QuickFacts, Forsyth County, North Carolina, U.S. Census Bureau, http://web.archive.org/web/20070419040258/http://quickfacts.census
.gov/qfd/states/37/37067.html (last visited Oct. 13, 2012).

[124].   U.S. Census Bureau, County and City Data Book: 2000, at 656–57 (2000), available at http://www.census.gov/prod/2002pubs/00ccdb/cc00
_tabC1.pdf.

[125].   Estimates for North Carolina Counties, 2003, U.S. Census Bureau, http://www.census.gov/did/www/saipe/county.html (select “2003” for “Year,” select “North Carolina” for “State,” and click “Continue”; for “Select areas to display,” select both “North Carolina” and “Forsyth County,” and click “Display Data”) (last updated Oct. 2006).

    [126].   Profile of General Demographic Characteristics: 2000, Census 2000 Summary File 4, U.S. Census Bureau, http://factfinder2.census.gov/bkmk/table
/1.0/en/DEC/00_SF4/DP1/0500000US37067 (last visited Oct. 13, 2012).

    [127].   U.S. Census Bureau, North Carolina: 2000, Census 2000 Profile 2 (Aug. 2002), available at http://www.census.gov/prod/2002pubs/c2kprof00
-nc.pdf.

[128].   Profile of General Demographic Characteristics: 2000, 2000 Census Summary File 1, U.S. Census Bureau, http://factfinder2.census.gov/bkmk/table
/1.0/en/DEC/00_SF1/DP1/0500000US37067 (last visited Oct. 13, 2012).

[129].   U.S. Census Bureau, supra note 127.

    [130].   Profile of General Demographic Characteristics: 2000, 2000 Census Summary File 3, U.S. Census Bureau, http://factfinder2.census.gov/bkmk/table
/1.0/en/DEC/00_SF3/DP2/0500000US37067 (last visited Oct. 13, 2012).

    [131].   U.S. Census Bureau, supra note 127, at 3.

[132].   See infra Appendix I, p. 1 Box 7, p. 3 Box 10.  The North Carolina court forms included in this publication are created by the North Carolina Administrative Office of the Courts, which has given permission for the use of these forms in this publication.  The North Carolina court forms are the 2006 versions of the forms and not the most current versions of the forms.

[133].   See infra Appendix III, p. 3 “Order” Box 10; Appendix IV, p. 6 “Order” Box 1.  Most of the parties in domestic violence court appear pro se.  The pleadings reflect that many of the parties fill out these forms with little or no assistance, explaining why they fail to check appropriate boxes or check boxes that are inapplicable.

[134].   See supra note 8 and accompanying text.

[135].   See infra Appendix I.

[136].   See infra Appendix II.

[137].   See infra Appendix III.

[138].   See infra Appendix IV.

[139].   E.g., N.C. Criminal Justice Analysis Ctr., supra note 1, at 1, 5 (basing information on a 2000 survey of twenty-five counties in North Carolina, including Forsyth).  While the studies did not indicate whether all of these were minor children, other findings indicated that they were.  For example, the studies referred to the “custody” of the child, with 88.7% of the children in common in the “custody” of the plaintiff.  E.g.id. at 4.  Moreover, the average age of the plaintiffs in the study was thirty-four years old, strongly suggesting that the children in common were minor children.  Id. at 2.

[140].   The forms do not always contain the information that they are designed to collect; therefore, missing data affect the base calculations and subsequent percent distributions.

[141].   This Article distinguishes between the ex parte order under N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-2(c) and the order after notice and service of process under N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-3 by the phrases “ex parte order” and “ten-day order” respectively.  The statute on ex parte orders requires a hearing within ten days from the issuance of the order or within seven days from the date of service of process on the defendant, whichever occurs later.  N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-2(c) (2011).  For this reason, the legal community uses the phrase “ten-day order” to refer to the order after notice and service of process.

[142].   See supra notes 119–21 and accompanying text.

[143].   Conversation with William Reingold, supra note 115.

[144].   Conversation with Allison Cranford, Dir., Safe on Seven, in Winston-Salem, N.C. (Aug. 15, 2012).

[145].   Conversation with Alisa Huffman, Senior Manager of Court Programs and Mgmt. Servs., N.C. Admin. Office of the Courts, in Winston-Salem, N.C. (Nov. 13, 2012).

[146].   N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-2(c).

[147].   Id. § 50B-3(a).

[148].   For the purposes of this study, the judge could “address custody” in a number of different ways.  Certainly if the judge awarded temporary custody to one of the parties, then the judge “addressed custody.”  But we also counted an order as one that “addressed custody,” even without an award of temporary custody, if the order imposed conditions on access to the child on one of the parties.

[149].   N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-2(c).

[150].   Id. § 50B-3(a1)(4).

[151].   See infra Appendix I, p. 1 Box 3.

[152].   See infra Appendix I, p. 1 Box 3.

[153].   Kim & Starsoneck, supra note 10, at 45.

[154].   See infra Appendix I, p. 1 Box 4.

[155].   See infra Appendix I, p. 1 Box 4.

[156].   N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-3(a) (2011).

[157].   See infra Appendix I, p. 1 Box 5.

[158].   See infra Appendix I, p. 1 Box 5.

[159].   See infra Appendix I, p. 2 Box 8.

[160].   N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-2(c).

[161].   For ex parte orders, see infra Appendix III, pp. 2–3.  For ten-day orders, see infra Appendix IV, p. 2.

[162].   See infra Appendix IV, pp. 5–6.

[163].   See infra Appendix III, p. 2 “Additional Findings” Box 2b.

[164].   See infra Appendix III, p. 2 “Additional Findings” Box 6.  Note that this is a requisite finding for an ex parte order of custody.  N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-2(c).

[165].   See infra Appendix IV, p. 2 “Additional Findings” Box 3b.

[166].   See infra Appendix IV, p. 5 “Findings” Box 3.

[167].   See infra Appendix IV, p. 5 “Findings” Box 3.

[168].   See infra Appendix III, p. 2 “Additional Findings” Box 4e.

[169].   Hensey v. Hennessy, 685 S.E.2d 541, 546–47 (N.C. Ct. App. 2009) (finding that the order is sufficient if it incorporates the allegations of the complaint as its “specific facts”).  In Hensey, the North Carolina Court of Appeals also cautioned judges that the ex parte order requires a hearing, which means something more than the judge reading a verified complaint and reaching a conclusion in chambers.  Id. at 545.

[170].   See infra Appendix III, p. 2 “Additional Findings” Box 6.

[171].   See infra Appendix IV, p. 2 “Additional Findings” Box 3b.

[172].   See infra Appendix IV, p. 5 “Findings” Box 3.

[173].   N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-3(a1)(3) (2011).

[174].   See generally Sack, supra note 111 (articulating a model for courts comprehensively to address the issues of families dealing with domestic violence).

[175].   N.C. Admin. Office of the Courts, North Carolina Domestic Violence Best Practices Guide for District Court Judges 47–48 (2012) (discussing issues to consider when deciding whether to grant visitation and deciding visitation terms).  See also the benchcard that the North Carolina Administrative Office of the Courts gave to all district court judges encouraging the judges to address custody in domestic violence court.  Kellie Myers, N.C. Admin. Office of the Courts, Judicial Strategies for Domestic Violence Courts Benchcard 2 (2012), available at http://www.nccourts.org/Citizens
/CPrograms/Victims/Documents/dvbp-benchcard.pdf.

[176].   N.C. Admin. Office of the Courts, supra note 175, at 48.  For an example of provisions to include on local forms, see id. at 48–50.  For a sample visitation worksheet, see id. at 113.

[177].   See infra Appendix III, p. 2 “Additional Findings” Box 7.

[178].   See infra Appendix III, p. 3 “Order” Box 10.

[179].   See infra Appendix III, p. 3 “Order” Box 10c.

[180].   See infra Appendix III, p. 3 “Order” Box 11.

[181].   See infra Appendix III, p. 2 “Additional Findings” Box 8.

[182].   See infra Appendix III, p. 3 “Order” Box 11.

[183].   See infra Appendix III, p. 4 “Order” Box 15.

[184].   See infra Appendix III, p. 2 “Additional Findings” Box 7.

[185].   See infra Appendix III, p. 3 “Order” Box 10.

[186].   See infra Appendix IV, p. 6 “Findings” Box 4.

[187].   See infra Appendix IV, p. 6 “Order” Box 2.

[188].   See supra note 172 and accompanying text.

[189].   N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50B-3(a1)(4) (2011).

[190].   Suzanne Reynolds & Ralph Peeples, When Petitioners Seek Custody in Domestic Violence Court and Why We Should Take Them Seriously, tbl.12, Wake Forest L. Rev., https://www.wakeforestlawreview.com/wp-content/uploads
/2012/11/Reynolds_Peeples_Tables_12-14.pdf (last visited Nov. 26, 2012).

[191].   Id. at tbl.13.

[192].   Id. at tbl.14.

[193].   See supra Part II.B.

[194].   See supra Table 11.

[195].   See supra Tables 9–10.

[196].   See supra Part II.C.2.c.

[197].   See supra Part II.C.2.b.

[198].   See supra Part II.C.1.

    [199].   See supra note 97 and accompanying text.